#lala talks

[lov3dream]

when your f/o does something hot and youre suddenly thrown back into the crushing period

[rememberdamonn]

i just think it’s neat that the entire show is structured around the development of damon and elena’s relationship, evidenced most obviously by the fact that every season finale is not only about delena, but about delena’s journey as it’s been building in each finale that came before it. in the s1 finale damon kisses “elena.” except of course he doesn’t, because she’s katherine, but it means that s2 starts off with a big scandal about whether elena would actually kiss damon or not. despite what she says, when the s2 finale rolls around, she does kiss him. in the s3 finale elena chooses stefan. yet the moments that we’re actually shown on screen aren’t about elena choosing stefan, they’re about the fact that she’s not choosing damon. that’s why she gets the phone call and teary moment with damon, and doesn’t get the chance to talk to stefan about it at all until 4x01. in the s4 finale she does choose damon. in the s5 finale she loses him. in the s6 finale damon loses her. in the s7 finale damon is not reunited with elena despite thinking he hears her in the vault. in the s8 finale damon is reunited with elena when she wakes up. look at it like this:

s1 finale: elena does not kiss damon

s2 finale: elena kisses damon

s3 finale: elena does not choose damon

s4 finale: elena chooses damon

s5 finale: elena loses damon

s6 finale: damon loses elena

s7 finale: damon and elena are not reunited

s8 finale: damon and elena are reunited

you don’t have to look hard to see that it was always about them.

[leoascendente]

Got my first hater yesterday, I'm so excited, feeling like Kim K but without zionism and unhealthy beauty standards 🤣🥹

What I have learnt from this: first, some people are really bored and in need of arguing and second, it's true that we treat others the same way we treat ourselves so always be kind and polite when sharing opinions, you never know if the other person has problems and it's just paying their frustrations with you. I'm not much of an argumentative person but holy Jesus, there are people out there with heavy repressed anger issues

Let me know if you have ever dealt with an irrational hater and how did you handled the situation

[wonday]

yoo kihyun you have my heart. 😭

[unoflips]

I headcannon Wangxian just adopting Ouyang Zizhen because his dad is a butthole who threatens to disown him if he keeps hanging out with the yiling patriarch

Sect leader Ouyang: if you don't stop hanging out with the ypa then I'm gonna disown--

Wwx: no take backs

SLO: you're letting him speak for you now as well

WWX: No like seriously, I'll adopt him for real

SLO: This doesn't even involve you?

WWX: Lan Zhan, you've got the adoption papers right?

LWJ: Mn. (one hand holding oyzz's and the other holding a sheet of paper)

SLO: Does my son get a say in this

LXC: (appearing out of nowhere and taking the paper) sign on the dotted line and you no longer have a son (scary zewu jun placid smile)

OYZZ: I don't know, i mean, I'm the sect heir?

WWX: Son you can be whatever you wanna be

OYZZ: (with sparkly eyes) Jingyi's husband?

WWX: weird flex but okay,, if that's what you want

LWJ: and what he wants

WWX: Lan Zhan our son is already betrothed (crying) they're going to leave us alone

LWJ: mn. Will never leave wei ying

SLO: I've been forgotten and my son has been kidnapped

LXC: yeah get used to it, they do that a lot. Bet you didn't think THIS was what they meant when they said the Yiling Laozu was dangerous huh?

[pinktenderheart-blog]

summer tips for regressors ☀🌡

summer is coming pretty early where i am, and since i'm already in need of some of these tips, i'm sharing them to all of you! 💙

tips for staying cool:

keep a spray bottle handy! i just fill mine with water, but you can add fragrance if you want! a bottle of perfume also works! 🌸💐🌺

try to find or buy/thrift cute clothes that are also made of thin material! baggy clothing can also keep you pretty cool if it's not too heavy

eating cold food can help you regulate your inner body temperature! i would recommend fresh fruit salad, sandwiches cut into shapes, fruit juice/smoothies, and of course ice cream!! 🍦

if you refuse to take off your onesie, try unbuttoning or unzipping them a little bit to let cool air in! turning on a fan (or multiple) helps too! 🐻🐸🐰

tips for having fun in (or out of) the sun:

swimming always helps me regress! if you can't access a swimming pool, running a cool or lukewarm bath works as well!

water gun fights with friends or a cg can be a blast! just be careful not to slip and fall! 🔫💦

playing with kinetic or regular sand can help you feel like you're at the beach! bonus points for seashells(yes, even fake ones!) 🐚

watching kiddie movies with ocean and beach themes! my favorites are the little mermaid, moana, and finding dory!

playing with bath toys and other plastic toys in water and pretending they're at the beach or pool is sooo fun!!! well at least for me 😅

and of course, going to the beach, water park, or boardwalk is super fun if you like to swim, play in the sand, or play fun games and win stuffie prizes!!!!

tips for feeling like you're on an island even if you're super duper far away from the ocean:

finding ocean/sea creature themed baby gear, stuffies, and clothes(it's super easy to find them during summer!! you should even find some treasures at the dollar or thrift store)

eating tropical fruits(mango, coconut, banana, pineapple, etc) or tropical-flavored foods! you can even put some vanilla coconut milk in that sippy/bottle/cup of yours!!!

listening to beachy or tropical themed music!! whether it be the beach boys or the moana soundtrack, it's gonna be a good time 🎶

look at pictures, videos, and gifs of pretty beaches and underwater scenes 🌊🤩

feel free to add to this list! have fun, stay cool and drink lots of water!! 🐳

[showmella]

I'm ngl, but I thought the repackage version said, "COMA" instead of "COMMA". After seeing the teaser was like that sounds about right...

[livinlavidalala]

Okay, so third time trying to respond to this, but dammit, I will!!!!

Thank you so so so much!!!! I'm so happy someone (other than me) loves my carsona!!!! I really should ressurect this blog and draw her more!!

I don't remember if I shared it here or not, but I made a die cast of her and one for my bf too!!!

Here they be!!: