Remember these Red Flags.🚩🚩🚩
Expect you to know everything and do everything. 🚩
Unable to become flexible to meet your needs.🚩
Demand for titles to be used, without earning them.🚩
Doesn't give you structure, routine and discipline.🚩
Punishes you without explaining or warning.🚩
Ignores you when it's not focused on a specific subject.🚩
Alienating you from others and making you dependant on them.🚩
Going away for days or disappearing without communication.🚩
Expect you to follow rules without discussing what works and rules you have for them.🚩
Ignores consent, limits and boundaries.🚩
Doesn't learn your safe word.🚩
Doesn't give you aftercare.🚩
Becomes short or upset easily when you're struggling.🚩
Demands and dictates.🚩
Only wants it to be sexual.🚩
Isn't clear and concise.🚩
Does guide, nurture and grow with you.🚩
It's incredibly important to respect and love yourself, don't let a kinkster disrespect you, manipulate you and make you feel obligated to be something you're not.