See, OK, Cas is a kinky little fucker whether he knows it or not. The way he's curious about porn (and gets a boner about it despite being sort of disgusted by it let me tell you that the combo of being disgusted/confused about it while also getting a boner about it is like the perfect primer for kink). The way when Meg kisses him to steal his blade and Cas just... his reaction is ??? TO GRAB HER AND KISS HER AGAIN? The way he just... has sex with April.
Like OK, they have the most vanilla sex there is to have, but that counts as sexual experiments when you've never had sex at all. This person he just met and he's so eager to, oh, well, I've been a human for a couple of days and experienced homelessness and been nearly killed. Sex though.
Cas is a kinky little fucker. Or, has the potential to be, if someone teaches him anything about kink. You cannot convince me he's not into some weird shit he doesn't even know he's into.
it's pride weekend and a sunday so I'm just going to share with the dashboard that contemporary verse Izzy Hands is into pup play. I generally see him as participating heavily in the kink/leather scene (as a sub) and while he's definitely a kinky motherfucker in piracy era as well, contemporary (and let's be honest? Mass Effect verse) really opens the possibilities for like. pup play as an example. he'd like to be muzzled, collared, mitt(en)ed and kept in a cage/crate, I think. he has a huge humiliation kink in general which very neatly ties into pet play.
@vallorouslly said: drive, stimulation (for tali cause we're dangerously curious of just what she likes or if she likes at all)
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drive — how high is their sex drive? are they hyposexual, hypersexual, or somewhere in between? does it change depending on the circumstance? how often do they have sex?
:: Somewhere in between. Tali hasn't actually ever had sex with another person, but masturbating is something that she's experimented a lot with, and learnt what she likes when it comes to it. She has tested out several different suit-modules - toys (akin to vibrators, that don't have to be removed between uses and aren't intrusive to everyday life) integratable to quarian protective suits - and takes care of her own needs fairly often.
Her sex drive would probably be similar if she was having partnered sex - definitely there, definitely something she likes.
stimulation — how do they prefer to be stimulated? do they like being given handjobs? do they like being fingered? do they like being given oral? is/are there any specific spot(s) on their body they like being stimulated the most? where do they like to stimulate their partner(s)?
:: Back to "Tali has never had partnered sex before" - she doesn't know! She's never had a romantic relationship during her adulthood (she's had flings as a teenager on the fleet, but she's never linked suit environments with someone before), and while she would have no issue with one-night-stands, such are simply not safe for her to explore due to her immune system being so weak.
It's rare for her to be unsuited even by herself due to the risks involved, so she hasn't had much occassion to even touch her own body with her own hands, like that; her suit provides sensory input for regular touch, but it's not really the same.
She knows she likes clitoral stimulation with a vibrator, but what she might like with a partner would have to be explored with a partner. I think she's probably very sensitive in general, and prefers gentle as opposed to rough touch, and is easily overstimulated.
i keep seeing that sexual preferences dash game floating around and feeling :( about it because i want an easy checklist for my muses' kinks, but i don't want the other parts of the copypaste and while i guess i could edit those out
what if you sent me names of kinks for my characters (on or off anon) and i replied whether they'd be into that or not?
soft reminder that all of my character about pages, on the character premise tab, state whether the muse is open to sexual first interactions, and that you can always send sexual memes for any muse who is open to casual sex