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D: what happened
A fantastic question!
So since you’re one of my newer followers, you may or may not have known this (or you may have guessed it, based on the types of memes I frequently post) but ya girl here is a cardiophile. Which, in the simplest terms, is a person who has a kink or deep appreciation for heartbeats.
A blog that I don’t follow sent me a message and was clearly using some heavy cardiophiliac themes in what I assume was an attempt to lure me into answering it. I’m not really sure - its not fair of me to assume. I don’t know what the intention was.
But what I do know, without assumption, is that what was written was uncomfortable and a little embarrassing and not exactly the type of thing a cardiophile wants to read. It was just........really not a Good Time for me to read it and I know they probably didn’t intend for me to get offended so I don’t wanna be mean or anything, but that’s what happened.
Kinks and such are sensitive subjects and it was just very uncomfortable to have someone come at me that I don’t know, who I don’t follow, using cardiophilia as a means to get my attention/possibly answer the ask. I’m just not a happy camper about it but I’m probably overreacting lmao.
THAT BEING SAID..... I love to write cardiophilia stuff with people who are curious, interested, or just straight up wanna give it a shot as long as its discussed first OR it comes from one of the cardio memes that I posted!!! It’s my fave thing to write about, obviously, so I don’t want anyone to think they can’t. Just like. Tell me first please;;; Unless we’ve known each other a while and you just wanna throw random goodies at me --- thats way different than a complete stranger.