#like just ask

[kingdomofalani]

black swan is the type of yandere to do you a huuuuge favour not out of some genuine goodness of her heart, but just so that you'll feel deeply indebted to her. she relies on pure manipulation to keep you to herself and god is she good at it.

[souleater]

i have so many good romance manhwa suggestions it's unreal

[venusianmoongoddexx]

Had like 3 people project onto a post that wasn’t about them lol

if the shoe fits….

Also this is a good lesson on minding your business.

[rotterinthebight]

Don't you hate it when someone offers someone help or a favor that requires that you ask someone else for a favor. Without asking you before offering it.

[abstractmouse]

Sometimes, I just want to teach people how to draw... but then I remember that I’m actually not very good.

[iamianbrooks]

At work the other day, this lady came in as soon as we opened and asked if we do grilled cheese sandwiches, and I was like here’s our menu and she said, oh no thanks I just would like a grilled swiss cheese sandwich (which is not a normal menu item, but we are capable of making them). I said ok, but we have so many great options, with awesome ingredients, here on our *MENU*, if you’d like to take a look before you make a decision. 

She glanced at the menu for a moment, laughed, then handed the menu back to me and said: “I dont understand what any of these ingredients are. I’ll just take the one I ordered” (WHICH, MIND YOU, IS NOT ON THE MENU). And listen, we’re a fancy cheese shop, we make fancy sandwiches, we have the best ingredients, I promise you. But this lady wont even entertain the thought. I say, “ma’am, it just seems like such a shame to come in here and not try one of our artisanal sandwiches, they’re all great recipes that our chef came up with. I’d be happy to explain any of the ingredients to you”. 

She then laughed once more and said, I QUOTE, VERBATIM: “Your creativity is my confusion”. 

Your creativity is my confusion.

We’re not pretentious people, we sample out all the cheeses because we dont expect anyone to come in and recognize the ones we carry. I understand it can be daunting but we hold people’s hands and walk them through the entire process. That’s what I do everyday. I offered to help.

But this lady not only wont open herself up to trying something new, she won’t even let someone help her. She flaunts her willful ignorance. She uses it as a goddamn mantra. Your creativity is my confusion. Your creativity is my confusion. I live in a bubble. New things scare me and shall not enter my bubble. Creativity is my confusion. 

Just, what a sad way to live your life. If you dont like our sandwiches, you dont like our sandwiches, but that was a rehearsed line. She had said that before. Maybe you should give creativity a chance.

[sinmatrem-blog]

totes cas reminder that i work with exclusives and mains, and you could be in here for the low low price of one soul :^)