“Those are victims ur being so mean to” YOUR SELF HATRED IS NOT FUCKING INTERESTING AND I REFUSE TO STOOP TO THAT LEVEL ANYMORE! if that is mean then you need to grow the fuck up cause what we are NOT about to do is once again tell women we shouldnt be angry or have no right to carry anger over this. You wanna be soft and passive be that but when women are fed up with this bullshit i think we have the right to be pissed off that we cant spend quality time with our family and friends without also being thrown into the depths of despair bc yall wanna use self hatred as some bonding ritual👍 “omg do not normalize this anger” no i think more women should be even angrier that we even have to do this kind of mental work for the women around us 😃 i think we deserve to be upset and mad about this. This is not misplaced anger when yall are making it a point for insecurities to make up your personality lmao
And this is why i refuse to even engage with this mindset. No matter what you say you are fueling the self hatred, the attention is what is being seeked even when they dont think it is. They are LOOKING TO BE VALIDATED! IT IS THE VALIDATION THEY WANT FROM THEIR SELF HATRED. Self hatred is like siphon, it takes from you and it takes from everyone around you. They want you to coddle them they want u to stroke their ego and once you knock that shit down there aint anymore substance for them to leech off of! IVE BEEN THERE!! Ive hated myself into nothing my whole life! Theres genuinely no such thing as compassion-ing womens self hate away! it fuels it! You literally have to let these ladies know hating themselves is not fucking cool and having other women around to nag you on MAKES IT WORSE NOT BETTER NOT EVEN COMFORTING! Even when yall tell her shes perfect and the world sucks it wont change anything bc thats also a form of validation. You literally have to dry that shit up by not entertaining it in any form or fashion and yall hate hearing that
And lastly!!!! all you “uwu compassion will help them” girlies cant seem to understand this either and will have all ur hard work and efforts shit all over bc u genuinely cannot save women who do not want to be saved lmao