god something i wanna focus on for a minute. this was one of my first posts, it wasnt an extremely popular posts like the others i made on this blog, but it was accepted and a lot of people understood this as one of my beliefs that queer was a slur
this was back in like late 2015 but yall have done such a role reversal. i find it weird that this post wasnt attacked back then, but i realized that it wasnt weird at all, everyone thought is was ridiculous that cishets were saying that queer wasnt a slur and cishet was. but now that theres discourse on cishet ace/aros and ace/aro being inherently lgbt, its like its flipped. yall are happy to accept queer as some sort of universally reclaimed buzzword and umbrella term and shun anyone who uses the word “cishet”, all for aces
its just bizarre to me. cishet aces literally came in, stole our slurs and began to use them unapologetically and as an umbrella term, and then said that cishet is a slur. a thing i said back into 2015 as a joke just happened to become a widespread belief on this site thanks to ace tumblr. and i know im not the cause of it or that i had to do anything to with it really, im only one man, but damn. its still shocking










