#lucarleigho

[lucarleigho]

MATT FUCKING DELETED THE POST HE MADE ABT PREDSTROGEN. MY REPLY TO HIS ASK IS FUCKING GONE. THE COWARD IS TRYING TO HIDE ALL EVIDENCE OF HIS TRANSMISOGYNY. WHO HAS SCREENSHOTS OF THE ORIGINAL POSTS??

[punkitt-is-here]

trixie lululemondemon. is this anything

this is everything to me

[yomielworld]

🪷

a flower for you!

i first saw this on the phone and it was a square so i was like ''no way minecraft flower''

[lucarleigho]

why is it, when faced with horrendously false claims and egregious lies abt trans women, ppl come out of the woodwork to criticize the way they rightfully become angry at the deceitful transmisoginysts that got a trans womans blog wrongfully nuked. its never a conversation abt "how could this have happened and how can we stop it", its always "well i dont like the way you responded so obviously you deserved it". the patronizing tone policing makes me fucking sick. the trans woman always has to be perfectly polite and agreeable, even in the face of her own oppression and harassment campaign, lest she become the evil tranny who did every awful thing you accused her of just because you dont like her tone. THAT is transmisogyny.

[lucarleigho]

everyones always inventing a guy to get mad at in their head. why dont you invent a guy who will suck you off instead

[lucarleigho]

what part of "dont spread callout posts of trans women" dont you ghouls understand?

"she has kinks i dont like" get over it "she groomed kids" i dont believe you "she was abusive to X" it doesnt concern you "she told someone to kill themself" i dont care

ppl make shit up abt trans women all the goddamn time to justify mass harassment campaigns and you throw around "accountability" when you actually mean "unperson and harass until her blog is deleted" and even THEN you never shut the fuck up abt her until the next trans woman you hate has a controversial kink or opinion. when does it fucking end??? i have NEVER seen harassment this targeted and vitriolic against trans men. it doenst matter if she "deserved it" or whatever the fuck kinda justification you come up with to help you sleep better at night knowing you attacked a trans woman. you are lower than scum if you do it for ANY reason.

do you know what youre SUPPOSED to do when you disagree with a trans woman on the internet? you IGNORE, BLOCK, and MOVE ON. you dont sexually harass her, you dont dig thru her blog looking for "evidence" to justify your hatred of her, you dont tell your friends abt her taboo kinks, you dont maliciously and willfully misinterpret her posts and straight up make shit up abt her to make her look worse, and you ESPECIALLY dont lolcow and suicide bait her by dragging her name thru the mud with callout after callout post urging others to report and harass her as well.

trans women are undeniably the most vulnerable and least protected ppl on and offline. she has to be perfect and never say anything bad ever or everyone turns on her the moment she snaps from the sheer harassment she experiences. could you even IMAGINE if this was your life? its absolutely disgusting how often this happens. their names are tarnished forever. it kills them. do you hear me? YOU ARE KILLING TRANS WOMEN WHEN YOU DO THIS.

its not enough to listen to trans women, you have PROTECT trans women. never again means never again. FUCK YOU.

[lucarleigho]

INTRODUCING MY SUSAN TAXPAYER OCS I JUST MADE

penny pencilpusher belongs to my gf @trickyyoyospinner

susan taxpayer belongs to @punkitt-is-here btw theyre making a video game?? check it out!

[lucarleigho]

something ive noticed from following and reblogging from primarily trans women is that the issues that tme transandrophobia truthers complain abt simply dont exist outside of their self flagellating echo chamber, which is to say its mostly self inflicted due to not understanding what transfems are actually saying. to be clear, im NOT on tme-blr. when rita predgesterone was personally terminated by tumblr ceo matt mullenweg, i was barely a transfeminist and i did have that initial pang "oh shit, do transfems hate me just for being an enby transmasc?" despite having no logical reason to think this way. thankfully my wife is extremely smart and patient (i love you honey) and by the time i stopped internalizing, i noticed that the few trans men i did follow started to repeat terfy transandrobro rhetoric and i was just not going to let that hateful nonsense clog my mind or my dash. ive seen those drowned posts and im embarrassed by the level of cognitive dissonance required to believe that transfems being rightfully wary and distrustful of (trans) men is somehow a direct attack and call for extermination during a time where trans womens right to live is being publicly debated. seeing transfems venting "i hate trans men" and "kill all trans men" isnt a personal attack. its not even an actionable threat. its a vent made by desperately frustrated transfems

im not going to pretend that tme trans ppl dont experience any bigotry whatsoever as doing so would be disingenuous and incorrect. HOWEVER. our issues are NOT made worse by transfems as many tmes love to imply and straight up claim. for this reason, ill be focusing only on tme on tma violence.

im reminded of the 2015 era of feminism when basically everyone on this site could agree that "not all men" was a stupid thing to say in response to women who spoke out against their abuse at the hands of men and who were exhausted by their unyielding oppression in this patriarchal society. it was understood that men, as a class, have privilege over women, and benefit from women being oppressed. however, when you say trans men are part of that oppressive class who benefit at the expense of trans women, tme ppl will perform transphobic mental gymnastics to prove that trans men arent actually real men bc they "used to be women" (terf rhetoric) and transfems still benefit from patriarchy since they "used to be men" (many transfems will tell you they have never once benefited from patriarchy even before transitioning). they do this to deny their position of power over an EXTREMELY oppressed class in favor of claiming femininity in order to push transfems out of spaces created by and made specifically for them. they act as if only "biological men" (which, again, supremely transphobic) are capable of being part of that oppressive class, that it makes you a bad person (false), and that trans women claiming intersectional oppression are delusional.

the thing abt having privilege is that its deeply upsetting to be called out on having it. having to think abt your words and actions toward an oppressed class is a conscious decision. your words carry more weight than those who you have privilege over. youre treated better, paid more, given more opportunities and leeway when you fuck up. you often dont even notice it until someone brings it up (usually to criticize), you take it for granted, and if youre not careful, can lead you to develop prejudices against those who you have privilege over. having privilege makes it extremely easy to abuse others, even without meaning to, often without societal consequences. it doesnt make you BAD, it makes you DANGEROUS.

its extremely upsetting to see post after post from these trans women detailing their years of being harassed and stalked by trans men specifically, who use their transness as a shield for all criticism, crying out "well i CANT be transphobic, im literally trans!" while employing tactics used by bigots to subjugate and ostracize any transfem who disagrees with them. its not a coincidence that the same accusations against gay men (predatory, pedophile, etc), are lobbed at trans women. i see this so much more often now that trans womens blogs are being mass terminated at an alarming rate. maybe its been happening for way longer than i realize. it fills me with disgust, rage, and disappointment to see it happening again and again. if just seeing it online exhausts me so much, as a tme person, someone who isnt even the primary target of these attacks, it makes me feel even worse for the transfems being affected by it in their daily lives. im so sorry, transfems. i love you so much. i wouldnt be who i am without you.