#making a request

[ladybalem]

"Make love to me now, I just can't wait no more! I'm tired of always pleasure myself all alone... I need you!"

…woooa! Well, unless it’s someone declaring love for myself, LOL, I took it as a request for a preference list, and hope it really is just and only that… 😅😅😅 Is it necessary to say that the things will get hot here? I guess no. Sure they will. Eeeeeeeee!

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SMUT ALERT: SMUT AS FAR AS THE EYES CAN SEE

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Balem Abrasax - With a sober expression, but coldly hiding a smile of satisfaction, he’ll place his hand computer aside very slowly before to turn at her, and as he scrutinizes her with his profound eyes he’ll ask with a grave and saturnine voice: “So have you been pleasuring yourself, (***)?” and quickly grabbing her by her nape, approaching his face to hers, he’ll put his warm exhalation over her face: “And when you do this it is about myself that you’re thinking, isn’t it? It is about your Lord you’re thinking, isn’t it, (***)?” And without getting to respond, she’ll be, trembling, totally under his control, tensely panting. So he’ll slide his lips along her jaw line and neck, just to tease her, for some time, and then letting her go, he’ll turn her his back and say: “Be at my dwellings at an early tonight, and I will satisfy your thirst of pleasure. Now get out”.

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Marius Pontmercy - Leaving on the writing desk the documents with which he was laboring until that moment, he’ll get up from the chair and cup her pretty face with his both hands, then look her right into her eyes and say, with a touched voice: “I haven’t spent so much time alone with you lately, isn’t it, my dearest? But if you need me, you’ll have me, my love! Come, let’s go to our bedroom now, come.”

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Newt Scamander - At a first moment he’ll feel mixed up, as so for the unexpected of the things he just listened, as so cause he was with his mind far away, working on his laboratory with his plants as he was, wearing just a shirt and completely disheveled. But at the following instant, by looking at her in front of him, so pretty, as she was making him that so delicious and intimate request, and as he conjured on his mind the image of her giving pleasure to herself, Newt will bit his lip and whispering “Merlin beard!”, he’ll with both arms to pull away the things from over his work table to asides and, taking her by her waist, he’ll put her sat over it and give her a deep and passionate kiss before to get kneeled with his face between her legs as he quickly lifts up her skirt, gliding his fingers along her inner thighs: “I can help you with this, (***)”.

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Jack Jackson - Stopping for an instant with the tools at his hands over the piece of marble he was sculpting, Jack will look at her for a moment just as if he hadn’t comprehend it, before to quickly raise up, placing the tools aside in a hurry, and taking her by her face he’ll put her against the wall, giving her a deep and anxious kiss, and as he runs a thigh through between hers he’ll say to the maid, while rubbing his body on to hers with a growing desire: “Why did you not tell me this before, (***)? Why did you stay alone?”

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Stephen Wraysford - It doesn’t matter, absolutely, where they two would be when she says that to him: If at a picnic at a tranquil field, at a desert beach, at home, or at his barrack at the army camp. Stephen’s reaction will be always the same and just one: He’ll take her by her waist and nape and place her against the first place he sees in front of him that can support herself to him, take off her clothes and just cover her with pleasure from her head to toes, just like to compensate her for her waiting, before to finally take her to himself. And as he enters in her body he’ll slightly smile over her lips in a waggish way as throwing his warm cigarette breathing over her face he’ll ask her, but at the bottom of his voice his tone is actually affirmative: “You do it thinking about me, when you do it, don’t you?”

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Qwerty Doolittle - A little awkward he’ll hug her, caressing her hair, and whisper under a breath: “Oh, babe, sure… Don’t… Don’t need to ask it”. And when them two are already naked and in the bed, he’ll slightly touch over her sex, while he looks into her eyes, and he’ll ask: “When you said me you pleasure yourself, how do you do it?” And so she’ll show him. And aroused, he’ll place his fingers over hers, touching her as well, and whisper: “Together it’s better, isn’t it?” and lowering his eyes, he’ll confess: “I… I have done this too while thinking about you, (***)”, and kissing her, he’ll slightly pull her for himself by her shoulders and say at her ear: “Come. I’ll make love to you. Show me how you like it, and I’ll do. Show me how to please you”.

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Lili Elbe - She will say with a touched voice: “Oh, my love!” and will take her loved one to the bed, where she’ll place her laid down, and while Lili opens her clothes, she’ll whisper: “And why were you waiting? If you know I love and desire you so? Why were you depriving yourself and priving myself as well of having you, my love?” And kissing her beloved entirely, Lili will glide her fingers through her, giving her pleasure exactly the way as she does by herself, and at the right moment when she hits that peak, her body pulsating of desire and her mind drifting in space, laying down over her Lili will penetrate her while she’s still contorting herself in ecstasy, and grabbing at Lili’s shoulders and nape she’ll almost scream Lili’s name, opening herself for whole and desiring Lili even more.

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Eddie Kreezer - Throwing away the glass with the rest of the whiskey he was drinking, and which will break against the motel room wall in the other side, causing her a scream of fright, he’ll take off his hat and also throw it away before to, without a word, take her by her hips and throw her on the bed, undoing his own belt and trousers quickly. And tearing out just her down clothes he’ll place her dog style, and giving a slap on her butt he’ll speak out loud : “(***), darlin’, so you like to put these little fingers of yours right there, isn’t? And what more had you put inside there, hum? You shameless girl!”, and giving her no chance to respond, he’ll take her at a time at once, plunging himself into her to the end of his length, while he speaks: “Now say to me if any of all these stuff seems like that, hum, say it!” And starting to beat his hips against hers with craziness he’ll yell, the people in the room next door getting to listen at it all: “So let’s go giving to that tasty little cunt what it’s wantin’ for so long, honey!”

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[scarletwidowblackwitch]

Making A Request

Things I'm willing to write: fluff, angst, hurt/comfort, fem!reader, gn!reader, child!reader, platonic relationships, dark angst (ptsd, grief, etc.)

Things I won't write: Anything involving no consent/SA, pedo, harming animals

Making a request is always welcome! Please be aware it might take me sometime to get to it.

[astro-sunflower]

information on making a request

Hello everyone! Before making a request I do ask of you keep in mind the following things.

Look through my masterlist of request to see if I’ve already done a moodboard that you may request thank you

I will only make a repeat moodboard if you put in a request for male/female/or enby

I am only taking requests for big three placements. No longer including mercury, venus, or mars in order to make things easier for myself. Ex. leo sun libra moon virgo rising

For couple moodboards you can request big three + venus sign, but please nothing more.

[kiralamouse]

Anyone know good places to buy Blu Rays/DVDs online while avoiding Amazon and big box stores? I’m about to resort to Best Buy as At Least Better Than Wal-Mart, but I want to think through my options here.

[carthagebuckley]

New Post has been published on Coaching Positive Performance

New Post has been published on http://coachingpositiveperformance.com/ask-for-what-you-want/

How to ask for what you want

Undoubtedly, the quickest way to get what you want in life is to ask for what you want. Too many people pass through life hoping that they will get what they want. They hope that others will be able to interpret what it is that they want; then give it to them. When I hear people say that they have no luck in life or that they never get what they want; I often ask them ‘Do you ever ask for what you want?’ I am usually met with a puzzled look which is quite amusing. But, in all seriousness, how do you expect to get what you want from life if you are not prepared to ask for what you want. If you do not clearly ask for what you want in life, or if you do not get what you are looking for, it may be due to one of the following problems:

Fear of rejection

You are not clear about what you want

You don’t ask the right person

You are not asking in the right way.

How to ask for what you want

Rather than going through each of the four problems, listed above, individually; I will focus on how you should ask for what you want. If you follow these steps when you ask for what you want, you will greatly increase your chances of getting of your way.

1. Be specific about what you want.

If the other person does not understand what it is that you are looking for, then you did not really ask for what you want. When you ask for what you want, those whom you ask are crystal clear about what you want. They are then in a much better position to decide whether they can assist you or not. When you ask for what you want, make sure you are clear about:

What you want

When you want it

How much you want

Why you want it

2. Ask the right person

Would you ask your doctor to fix your car? I would hope not. You realise that your doctor is not the best person to fix your car and you know that you would have more luck if you were to ask your mechanic. The same principle should apply throughout your life i.e. ask somebody who is in a position to facilitate your request. If you do this, your success rate will dramatically increase.

Many people give up on their goals, not because their goal is unrealistic but because they got rejected when they asked the wrong person. When making an important request, it is worth taking a little extra time to determine the right person to ask, before you make your request.

3. Ask

You have the right to ask for what you want in life. It is important to remember that others also have the right to decline your request. When you demand, you are disrespecting the other person’s right to say ‘No’. You make it seem as though you give the orders and they must obey. This actually increases your chances of rejection as nobody wants to be bullied or harassed into doing anything.

It is not just your words that indicate whether you are asking or demanding; your body language is just as important. For example, my father used to have a habit of asking us to do something but he would then walk away before we could answer. If you don’t wait for an answer, you are just assuming that the other person will do as you say. That is not asking; that is demanding.

4. Don’t ask for more than you need at that time

If you ask somebody for too much in one go, you are more likely to receive a rejection. People are busy and they have a limited amount of time to spare. Ask yourself what you really need at that moment and ask for that. By all means, if they volunteer a little more, then feel free to accept the extra help.

5. What can you offer in return?

Nobody likes people who take, take, and take. There is good reason for that; you generally cannot trust them as they only think of themselves. Most people enjoy relationships and they are happy to help others. They understand that few relationships are completely equal and one person may give a little more than the other. However, when you make no effort to give anything back, no matter how small, people soon lose interest. In fact, most people have become so tired of selfish people that they won’t engage with people whom they even suspect of being like that.

Reciprocity is an amazing tool for building relationships and influence. Whenever you are preparing to ask for what you want, consider what you can offer in exchange. You can always go one step further. If you want to want to build a relationship with someone who may be able to help you in the future; why not offer to help them with something first?

6. Remember the basics

There are some basics of communication which go a long way. Saying ‘Hello’, ‘Please’ and ‘Thank you’ can make a real difference but in general just being polite counts for a whole lot. I don’t normally read direct messages on Twitter (too much spam) but a couple of days ago; I was deleting some messages when I stumbled upon the following message:

 ‘You must be the most relaxed man on earth if you know everything about stress. I’d love to know how you promote yourself’

The lady in question never made any attempt to say hello or introduce herself. Had she taken this approach, the response may have been more favourable. As it was, I just deleted the message. Here are just some of the other reasons why:

I am not a marketer so I am wary of offering marketing advice. What works for me may not work for others.

There wasn’t actually a request, simply a statement about what she would like to know.

She wasn’t specific. I do a heck of a lot of work trying to promote myself and I honestly would not have the time to explain it all. It would have been better if she asked for one specific piece of advice.

There are many people who have given me little pieces of advice along the way. I have also given, and enjoyed giving; advice to many people but there is a way to ask.

If you want to progress in life, you have to be prepared to ask for what you want. When you ask for what you want, and you do so in the right way, you are more likely to achieve the results that you are looking for. Many people mistake wishful thinking for action but wishful thinking doesn’t achieve a whole lot for you.  If you are not getting what you want from life, it may be time to overcome your fear of rejection, implement the 6 steps above, and start to ask for what you want. When you see the benefits you will be glad that you made the change.

Image credit: Chance Agrella