You know what bothers me occasionally?
That when we talk media, we never get to see a masc girl/woman or even just afab gender non conforming person that is masculine looking ever get a femboy or very feminine man.
When masc women and gnc afabs are shown in media paired with someone feminine it's always a female. Always the "dichotomous lesbian couple" dynamics.
And when femboys or feminine men show up it's the same thing, they're almost always paired with men.
And when we do have a feminine man with a woman she is almost NEVER allowed to be truly masc presenting, she still has to fit in a more feminine box, she still has to be "not too masc", otherwise it's a no go.
Can we please have dominant masc women with more submissive feminine men without them having to still be visually acceptable in their levels of gender presentation? Please media people I just want to see more masc women who can bag cute men too 😔🥺