@masterofthelivingforce asked: More serious meta question: What's Jack's view on love? did it change throughout his life?
hmm this is an interesting one. I think it would be remiss to say that Jack’s view on love hasn’t changed over the course of his life: he absolutely becomes more and more of a sceptic towards the idea of love as he gets older, which is the result of becoming more jaded towards the world as a whole. but even when he’s younger he’s not overly keen on the idea of loving anything but the sea and, later on, the Pearl. a part of that is the nature of the world he grew up in: being a sailor, he would have heard of love mostly manifesting in sailors whose only love was the sea, and other sailors who had wives and children on shore ( which, to Jack, is an inhibitor to his freedom and not something he wants at all ). he’s also not a romantic by nature, which doesn’t help, and he grew up in an environment where, for the most part, he was deprived of familial love. even though there is a deep part of him that longs to be loved, touch and sex and lust were more easily obtainable concepts for Jack as he matured into an adult, plus they came with the added bonus of not being things that can easily hurt him when his feelings aren’t involved.
love therefore wasn’t a priority, and regardless of how old he is it’s not something he actively seeks out -- at least if we’re talking about romantic love specifically. Jack craves attention, approval, validation, but he does and can succeed in obtaining these things without the need for typical romantic love to be involved. and particularly as he gets older, all that he really sees ( and experiences -- despite what Jack might say on the matter he has been in love in canon, and not just with his boat ) of love is that it makes people do idiotic things, which makes him even less inclined to let it become a significant part of his life. and to be even more sceptical, in Jack’s mind love gives somebody else power over you, and if you combine that with his experience and subsequent fear of betrayal, love comes under the same umbrella as loyalty and trust as things that he refuses to give away to people easily
so tl;dr; he does not deny that it exists -- he absolutely can’t do that as he loves his ship as fiercely and self-sacrificially as any classic romantic hero -- but at any point in his timeline he is sceptical of giving his heart away to someone. obviously sometimes that choice is taken out of his hands ( and that is the main way in which he falls in love with someone. it always has to happen to him unexpectedly lmao ), but romantic love is not something that he feels he needs in his life in order to feel fulfilled or be happy.