ok so i noticed that u portray bkg as a bf that LOVES doing things for his s/o, he just likes it when u depend on him cuz it makes him feel all needed and stuff SO how do you think would bkg fare with a lone-wolf hyper independent typa s/o? because i genuinely think he'd go insane in the early stages of ur relationship LMAOOOO he'd be pulling on his hair bcs WHY ARE YOU NOT LETTING HIM DO THINGS FOR U ‼️‼️ THAT'S WHAT HE'S HERE FOR ‼️‼️
LMAO i think at the beginning of a relationship it defo creates arguments and tough conversations. because he’s literally itching to do stuff for you and to finally do everything he’s ever wanted to do for a girlfriend but… you just do everything yourself.
so much of him finding things out later. when you order new furniture and you’re carrying it up the stairs and building it and you do it all yourself. he finds out when he arrives at yours and there’s new stuff everywhere. “you should have called me. i could have helped you!” and you always frown like he’s being a little silly. “i could do it myself though? i didn’t need you too?”
and then he’s all hurt and grumpy because he wants to be needed. same situation probably happens at least three times where he’s pulling on his hair and he just wants to beg for you to use him!! that’s why he’s here!! he wants to!!
so then it becomes a conversation together, understanding both sides and coming to a compromise. he knows there’s nothing you can’t do and he knows you can do everything he can. he just wants to do it for you sometimes. he wants to make you happy and be useful.
so yeahhhh now you so sweetly ask him to do stuff you don’t want to do. which is usually like taking the trash out, or picking you up places so you don’t have to buy an uber or making you breakfast because you don’t need to do everything yourself. getting looked after and not having to think too much is lovely.
though old habits die hard because you find out your hot waters not working so he comes in to find you on your back trying under the sink trying to fix it yourself. and he says he’s not asking to do it because he’s a man but because two sets of eyes work better than one. you end up sitting cross legged on the floor while he does it all for you. “next time ask me, stupid.” he’d say with a kiss on your forehead.
