#might-be-a-spiderwolf

[lypikrates]

might-be-a-spiderwolf replied to your post “Trying to type while carrying four toddlers is an interesting exercise...”

Sounds like you need more arms

Give me two more arms and I will carry four more children.

[mellowmelancholia]

might-be-a-spiderwolf replied to your post “why do people make a big deal about someone doing something without...”

It's trying to meet expectations. At work you would hopefully know what you need to do and get it done before your boss or super tells you to do it, then it's initiative and looks good on you. In the home it's being considerate. Both are really big deals to the person you're taking initiative for.

might-be-a-spiderwolf replied to your post “why do people make a big deal about someone doing something without...”

It depends on the context. For instance, when you live with other people and particularly your SO, it gets incredibly tiring and irritating asking them to do the same thing over and over and over, every day, every week. There's clearly something that needs done that they would like you to do, and it's maddening having to repeat it, especially because it's something that they should /know/ you want done by now.

oh my g o d s fuck off luke

[daddydeputy]

How to care: Soft meaningful kisses, play with hair, cuddles, if dire family cuddles. Feed subs. Ask how day was, see what can be done to make it better if bad or not so good.

That sounds good.

[daddydeputy]

30, 31, 42

30. Are they holding on to something in the past? Can he or she forgive?

Ben: No. And yes. (unless it’s my father then f*ck him)Benny: I was holding onto somethings, but it’s been a process. I know I can forgive for most of them.Benji: Yes, and I dunno.

31. Does your character have children? How do they feel about their parental role? About the children? How do the children relate?

Ben: Yes. I am so excited. They be mine. Me and Luke made them. (even if it was not intended but it happens)Benny: No.Benji: No...? (does Casey count, Rowan?)

42. What does your character want most? What do they need really badly, compulsively? What are they willing to do, to sacrifice, to obtain?

Ben: For my family to feel love and feel safe. Sacrifice myself.Benny: Not to feel so low all the time. I don’t know.Benji: Love. My father’s approval. To feel myself more often. And, I dunno...   

[daddydeputy]

Nighty night~

BENNYAre they a blanket hogger?No.

How many pillows would they sleep with to be comfortable?One.

Can they lucid dream?Yes.

What do they do on sleepless nights?Stare up at the ceiling.

Do they talk in their sleep?Not... really. More scream and cry and thrash.

Are they prone to sleepwalking?I don’t think so.

Light or deep sleeper?Light.

How clingy are they in their sleep?Depends.

What is sure to keep them up?Panic.

What is sure to help them fall asleep?Comfort.

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BENJIAre they a blanket hogger?Yes.

How many pillows would they sleep with to be comfortable?Two.

Can they lucid dream?No.

What do they do on sleepless nights?Read.

Do they talk in their sleep?Yes. 

Are they prone to sleepwalking?Yes.

Light or deep sleeper?Deep.

How clingy are they in their sleep?Sometimes very clingy.

What is sure to keep them up?Not feeling well.

What is sure to help them fall asleep?Warm milk.

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Ben and the moonies have already been answered.

[daddydeputy]

I was at the store getting groceries and I saw these and thought you might like them. [Holds out a bouquet of assorted flowers] //whichever muse

Benji smiled, “Oh Rowan they’re lovely. Thank you.”