#mod hop

[cheeryfairygender]

do the mods got any other socials :3?

Because I (Mod Hop) originally had my intro say something like "I'm the LGBT all at once" and had a carrd explaining my identities (such as being butch, as well as both a lesbian and Achillean man), this blog was then used to call-out Mod Bede further on Twitter (when he used one) majorly for being "lesbophobic" because that meant he supported bi lesbians, bisexual sapphics using dyke, and bisexual women using terms like butch/femme. And no, I am not kidding. This is legitimately what he was called out for and cancelled on Twitter for. He was too supportive of bisexuals and then they decided to go "and look at his partner!! If he wants to prove he doesn't support them, he has to break up with him!" They were able to link this blog to Mod Bede's socials.

It was extremely bad and he was getting hundreds of death threats and was being bullied severely. This is largely why we don't use this blog anymore, because of the trauma it caused for us (mostly him) (and because mogaipedia no longer exists meaning there is no useful database of searching for xenogenders).

Mod Bede is no longer on Twitter because Twitter sucks (not just for this), but because of the trauma from it, even though neither of us risk being "cancelled" over something like this specifically on Tumblr, he doesn't feel comfortable having us share our socials publicly. I would be comfortable sharing mine with someone if it was off of anon, because like this it makes us worried/reminded of that time.

Sorry for such the long answer and thank you for understanding and being interested!

(And to be clear, yes, of course we're both ""inclusionsts"" and support things like any queer people using whatever terms they want. Queer is messy.)

[cheeryfairygender]

hi hiiii! are you okay with your terms being added to my new wiki?

Yep!

[cheeryfairygender]

Sorry for bothering you, but could you explain the pronoun sets? In most pronoun sets like "They/Them/Theirs/Themself" You get three words before the "----Self" but on the ones you make theirs four. Eg "Voi/Void/Voids/Void/Voidself".

So my question is, where does the fourth one come from? What does it mean?

Of course you don't have to answer if you don't want, but I'm just curious. :)

That’s because all “pronoun sets” (in quotes because I really don’t know how else to put it) have four (besides the self) and five in total. They are:

Subject pronoun (she/he/they)

Object pronoun (her/him/them)

Possessive determiner (her/his/their)

Possessive pronoun (hers/his/theirs)

Reflexive pronoun (herself/himself/themself)

In many cases, the possessive determiner and possessive pronoun are the same, so you might only list four pronouns total: he/him/his/himself. But in actuality, the his is used for both the possessive determiner and possessive pronoun. It’s easier to see this difference in they/them pronouns. The possessive determiner in they/them is their and the possessive pronoun in they/them is theirs. It might be easier to see in example. (Examples taken from Pronoun Dressing Room)

I wonder if their day has been wonderful. That smile of theirs really makes me happy.

I wonder if his day has been wonderful. That smile of his really makes me happy.

Although the “his” is spelled the same way in both cases, the first case is the possessive determiner and the second case is the possessive pronoun. However, you can see that in they/them, the spelling of these pronouns are differentiated as “their” and “theirs”.

Neopronouns are often follow the pattern of (with each letter representing a different spelling of a pronoun for the set of pronouns) a/b/b/c/aself or a/b/c/c/aself, if that makes sense. Either the object pronoun and possessive determiner are the same (as in she/her) or the possessive determine and possessive pronoun are the same (as in he/him). In they/them pronouns, all three of these pronouns are different. Some neopronouns don’t follow this pattern and instead follow the pattern of a/b/c/d/aself (as in the/them).

If you go to the Pronoun Dressing Room (which I linked earlier), you’ll see that you have to input 5 different total pronouns.

TLDR; That’s because there are actually 5 different pronouns in each “pronoun set”, so they/them would actually be they/them/their/theirs/themself. Neopronoun sets are being newly coined, so it’s necessary to specify each of those pronouns rather than shortening the set, since English speakers usually just intuitively know how to follow he/him, she/her, and they/them, but don’t intuitively know how to fill out those unspecified neopronouns because they didn’t exist until they were coined in that moment or haven’t existed for very long.

[cheeryfairygender]

hi!! I’m one of the Korekiyo anons from a while back who said they’d probably use mirror pronouns… here to announce that I now use mirror pronouns! this is the second time I’ve accidentally projected gender things onto someone else first! (first time was bigender if you’re curious lmao) sorry if you’d rather not have chatty anons in your inbox, I just thought this was funny /gen

(I love chatty anons, don't worry! They're what motivate me to actually do things for this blog lol)

That's so great! I'm really happy for you :)!!!! I've done the same honestly lol, I don't know how to get into it because my labels have changed a lot over time but recently I was like lol I headcanon Jinx from Arcane/League of Legends as genderqueer yknow I've always loved the concept of the label but I've never used it because I just don't vibe with it but it's so cool and I wish I could be genderqueer :))) (guess who labels as genderqueer now lmao)

usually whenever i like, "get into a character" or ship, their identities reflect the current identities I'm going through or aspects of my identities or Bede's identities. so youre totally not alone, i think headcanons are a great way for a lot of people to discover and experiment with identities and if they like them or not!

[cheeryfairygender]

hey i was wondering can DID/OSDD systems with dsmp alters or dsmp kins interact with your blog

Of course! Alters are not something that can be controlled. I have alters of people that aren't good at all. Introjects (whether factives or fictives) are always welcome here, as well as the rest of their system.

Kins are a biiit more iffy. I believe in kin spiritually, so I don't believe it's 100% controllable. As long as it isn't a factkin situation and you're critical of DSMP with the things I or Bede have addressed, then I see no issue.

So basically if it's not factkin (I don't understand how you can kin from DSMP without it being factkin BUT I'm trusting those who say it isn't) and you're critical of DSMP and Dream then I see no issue :-)

I hope this answers your question/is an adequate answer?

[cheeryfairygender]

i kind of find it weird that you "hate"on dsmp fans for supporting bad people/problematic media jet Danganronpa 1 and 2 and Doki Doki Literature Club are also problematic media and the creators form those games also did bad stuff

I do not hate DSMP fans at all. I'm totally welcome to friendly discussion so if you're friendly to me I'll be friendly back :). I have made it very clear that I believe someone can be into something like DSMP if they are extremely critical of it.

However, this is entirely a very, very valid criticism! I would like you to tell me what you mean by "problematic media", though.

I am unaware of what the creators of DDLC did, so, if you could tell me, I'd very much appreciate that.

My issue is that DSMP is a very active series where the creators are actively using their platforms to promote racism and ableism.

With Danganronpa (I have no idea with DDLC because I have no clue what you're talking about), the games are entirely flawed and have issues such as transphobia, biphobia, and racism.

However, these are issues I have seen in like, DOZENS of other games and shows and books I've read. It is so not exclusive to Danganronpa. Like, it's so difficult to find media that doesn't fall victim to some sort of issue. I have seen many popular things that are WAY worse than Danganronpa, yet Danganronpa is deemed as the worst. I honestly don't know why and I don't know about it because I'm very disconnected on social media and only know these things from IRL people I've talked to.

Danganronpa does not have a platform to promote bad things in the way a livestreamer or Youtuber does. The racism promoted by Dream is far worse than anything I've seen in Danganronpa.

That's just my own opinion. To me, Dream crossed a line. Dream's platform allows him very much so to spread racism and ableism to very, very impressionable young people.

Danganronpa are one and done games that are not for children. Any issues in them are not being promoted in ways that are easy to spread in the same way.

Also...Danganronpa is for young adults. Young adults are very capable of critical thinking when it comes to the things they play or do.

DSMP is primarily consumed by younger teens who are VERY impressionable and not always as capable to be critical of the things.

TLDR; Dream crossed a line further than things like Danganronpa to me. Danganronpa is a series for young adults, so those playing it are more capable of criticism and awareness of the issues of the games, while many DSMP fans are much younger. DSMP fans are very impressionable due to him being a Real Person that you can interact with and Dream has actively promoted racist and ableist ideas to many of these people. Due to the nature of things like DSMP and Dream being content creators/livestream stuff/Youtube stuff, the nature of how his ideas and actions get promoted are WAY different than a piece of published media, like, a young adult book or a singleplayer video game.

See also: DSMP is just personally upsetting to me so I don't want fans to interact because the series upsets me for reasons unrelated to the actions of Dream.

[cheeryfairygender]

I’m not a fan of dsmp, but I don’t hate those who are, so is it okay for me to interact?

I don't care if you hate DSMP or anything, but if you SUPPORT DSMP, then don't interact, regardless of if you're a fan or not. Supporting means:

-financially supporting those involved with DSMP -encouraging financial gain through DSMP -promoting DSMP -giving views to DSMP content -intentionally ignoring or looking past the racism and ableism of Dream and those involved in DMSP -recommending the series to new people, ESPECIALLY if you don't inform them of the issues with it -being okay with people who are complicit in racism and ableism by supporting DSMP

I don't hate DSMP for no reason, I hate DSMP and its creator because Dream is racist and ableist. Everyone on DSMP KNOWS these things and is complicit in it. There are also members of DSMP that are racist outside of complacency.

You can support DSMP and be a fan. Likewise, I know that there are some people who are into DSMP and do nothing to support it.

If you need clarification, I'm happy to clarify! Just ask.

[cheeryfairygender]

What is wrong with people with Ed edd and Eddy icons? I never watched the show

[ID: A cropped screenshot of our pinned post that reads do not interact in all caps with an em dash before it. After that, it reads: Please do not interact if you have an Ed Edd n Eddy icon (the show is a trigger for mod Bede), if you are interacting with a blog that has the. The rest of the last sentence is cut off. The phrase a trigger for mod Bede is highlighted messily. End ID.]

It says it literally right here in our pinned post and the FIRST LINE IN OUR BIO CLEARLY SAYS TO READ OUR PINNED POST BEFORE INTERACTING. Also? DNIs don't mean there's anything wrong with the things on it inherently? It is not a list of morality?? So! Maybe follow the VERY BASIC THINGS ON OUR BLOG IN OUR BIO before asking questions like this? Maybe? Consider it? Hm??? Perhaps???? Because you're LUCKY as hell I saw this and not Bede because even being ASKED this shit is incredibly triggering for him. So, whoever you are, we ask that you don't interact with us! Thanks! Fuck off!