So it really complicated but i think im waxing both pale and pitch (Moirail and Kismesis) for the same person. Is this even possible? Like i love to mess with them and like actually get them to be better as a Kismesis would do and they are really annoying yet at the same time i love them for it. but i also wan to solve all there problems and be there for them. I'm so confused.
Not sure how long this has been in my inbox or if you still need help with this, anon, but I’m going to answer you anyway just in case you or anyone else is going through this.
So for starters, yes, it is entirely possible to wax both pale and pitch for someone. Many many kismestitudes are actually formed on the premise of competition to keep the both of you doing better. So by hating that person for being better than you, you’re motivating yourself to improve which then motivates the other person to improve as well to either keep up or surpass you. So actually there are plenty of kismestitudes that are about helping the other person in a competitive way. That being said, you can absolutely work pale into that sort of relationship. In fact it may help to at least be a little pale with your kismesis so you know where to draw the line and not push too far. It can help avoid the need for an auspistice. Because as we all know, blackrom can get messy fast if the parties involved get too carried away. Pitch-pale relationships are pretty common now (or so I’ve seen). So go for it. Be the best pitchrail you can be, if that is what you so desire.