#mombully

[meanmanic]

[meanmanic]

You didn’t know this when you smiled for the picture your mom was taking, but she invited those men over to drown you and then fuck her brainless by your floating corpse. Smile!

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Bullying moms

There is something out there that not a lot of people take into consideration. I do it, you do it, we as a society do it. We put our beliefs and our ideas on other people, what we don’t realize is how damaging to our souls this really is. Never did I think I would be plagued by other mother and their “opinions” I can’t breastfeed in public because your husband stares but because I give my baby a bottle I don’t care about bonding, because I’m a stay at home mom means I gave up on my dreams and they flew out the door the moment I had my daughter but if I decide to go back to work I’m negligent and wanting someone else to raise her. Co sleeping my daughter creates a baby that is too dependent on me but if I let her sleep in the crib I’m once again not bonding. If I formula feed my daughter I don’t care about her health or growth because it’s not the natural way. Or because I can’t afford brand name toys means my baby will be poisoned but if I buy the good stuff I’m lax in spending.

I don’t know how to win, I don’t even know if I want to win sometimes. I know that in my heart God gave me the formula that’s right for Naomi and I. Yes, I’m struggling with the fact I am a one income family and we might not be able to afford the nicer things like other moms I know, I don’t have a mommy and daddy buying my baby toys and clothes from named brand stores. I may not be married like all the other moms in my groups and we might not live in the nicest house, those are my own issues in working on but it's because I've seen our society say this is how things need to be. Moms are harder on other moms and that's a fact. I don't know how to describe it to non parents. It's like if you see that dog walking on someone's furniture you, and you know you do it, say in the most petty way.. Oh my dog would never do that.. STFU your dogs laying on your couch as we speak. 🖕🏽 that's my point. We're constantly judging and being opinionated in other people's lives that I'm not sure if your even apart of your own life. I want to apologize to anyone who has ever been a victim of mom bullying... Mom-ing is hard.. We need to stick together, unless you see my kid eating a stick of butter, encourage me and my child .. Don't stick your views in my life unless I have C L E A R L Y asked. Have you been mom bullied recently? Tell me how you handled it and how it made you feel!