here are some synastry notes inspired by my honey and I :) keep in mind all of this is my own experience and that all the charts natally and synastry need to be taken into account as a bigger picture, no placement can be isolated.
✫ moon opposite moon: while this placement can be challenging, it can also be very fruitful and inspire shifts in perspective that may be conducive to both ppls growth/healing. both inner worlds may be entirely foreign to one another but it can be helpful to see each others blind spots. both ppl could give great advice to one another that the other just simply never thought of.
✫venus trine pluto: this is a great placement for psychological depth and transformative love. different from the harsh aspects, the trine shows a receptivity and desire to crack open the deepest, most hidden parts of each other, bring it all to the surface, and sort through to find all that is true. this process of excavation from pluto can feel raw and vulnerable, but with the benefic nature of venus, all that is brought to the surface is done so with love and warmth. the ugly, "bad", and dark parts of ourselves can be washed away with love to make way for truth and authenticity. these relationships can turn you upside down and inside out but it's all to make way for your truest self and love nature.
✫ sun trine saturn: a beautiful, stabilizing, and grounding aspect for long lasting compatibility. dependable saturn provides security, safety, and longevity. concerned with what is clearly defined, concrete, and tangible, saturn is willing to push through hard times for delayed gratification. the sun is joyful, optimistic, and concerned with spirit and essence. this is a pairing that really balances each other out. the sun can bring a lot of warmth and playfulness and saturn can bring more structure into the dynamic.
✫ sun trine sun: both ppl feel as though they can truly be themselves in the others presence. this aspect suggests a cohesive flow of self expression. both are able to shine brightly without one diming the other one out or overpowering one another. they could be each others biggest cheerleader, they want the best for one another and shine together beautifully.
✫ moon conjunct lilith: this placement can be really beautiful especially when lilith person is a woman. moon person can help emotionally validate lilith through times they have felt disempowered or disenfranchised. the moon person can feel very upset, sad, and angry abt injustices lilith faces/has faced, they feel an urge to protect, defend, or even avenge lilith. lilith can feel seen and respected by the moon /because/ of their strength and perseverance through injustices rather than in spite of them.
✫ sun conjunct neptune: while there is a real risk for idealization from neptune and possibly an inaccurate image of the sun, with more grounding placements throughout the chart this can feel like an otherworldly, mystical, and seemingly fated connection. neptune can be completely enamored by the sun. sun can find neptune to be poetic and dreamy, they can feel really loved and adored.
✫ mars conjunct pluto: this aspect can manifest as power struggles, a strong spirit of competition, or heated rivalry (especially if in a fire sign) as pluto seeks power/control and mars seeks autonomy. there can be palpable sexual tension, physical chemistry, and hot passion in this connection. in the bedroom there may be a power differential or it can just be extremely primal even rough
original idea is @sofstiltskin's piece right here, thank you for it, also your permission to do it in my own way as well!<3
Sun in Virgo in the 9th house
I think it's important to note that this virgo sun of mine is in conjunction with my midheaven & leo mars.
I would say it feels like my classical- traditional virgo traits ALL get wrapped around an everburning fireball - so some are just burned and disappeared, some are stayed but actively burning under the surface.
I made a mini list of (imo) classical virgo traits that kinda 'burned off' of me:
clean freak, shyness, prefers listening over talking, perfectionist, ocd vibes, being lowkey, disciplined, persistent, enduring, the constant feeling of not being good enough, wanting to be perfect, tryna hide & cover up imperfections, not having confidence, being insecure about my body, loving routines, working out, wanting to fix and help all the time, loving pets & kids, being naive, generous and selfless, falling for 'bad boys'.
Andd on the other hand the virgo traits that still going strong with me:
love for reading, mainly literature, books and libraries, smelling books♡, bisexual (more into men leaning tbh still;( ), loving and paying attention to details, clever, observative, picky, a homebody, dislike for loud noises & too much sensory things, having good gut feelings, also prone to belly aches:(, loving eating clean and don't like spicy things, work smarter not harder, making lists and categories, sorting things out, put things in order, having a fine taste, quality over quantity mindset, sarcasm & irony is my second mother language ngl, having a good sense of humour, naturally talented at everything, being generally kind and understanding, loving equality.
I do enjoy the strong sag energy that was given to me here, but sometimes i just wish i could have a little more chill. I've got way too much fire and way too less earth + water energy in my chart for calmly sitting on my a** lol
I also feel like i'm the best at everything i ever tried so after i'm done editing and watching my own videos, listening to my covers, reading my own poems, posts and looking at my moodboards, i find everyone else a little too simple or simply just not good enough. For ex. having trouble enjoying listening to other artists after i recorded and edited my own cover or the same with poems and videos.
10/8
Moon in Aries in the 5th house
One of my personal favorite placement of mine! Very creative, very childlike, very independent, very free, evermoving, forever curious, flirty and fun! Would bravely recommend it anyone lol*
*Maybe the only negative thing with this placement that i'm a little bit too egotistical? I love looking at myself in the mirror, and if i wouldn't found this not mentally stimulating enough, i fear i would do this many hours a day.
I also love to look at myself in videos on my own channel. Editing videos abt myself. Listening to my own cover songs and also raps. My own moodboards, my own things are my absolute favourite ones. My favourite voice, face, hair, body, style, art, yt channel is mine and mine and mine and mine.👑🏆✨
My bestie pointed out to the fact that i'm also really brave and special with telling men how i feel romantically. Like when i got a crush on someone, i have no problem telling them right there on the spot, also asking them out (yes, they are surprised, yes, they love it). I did this so naturally only minding my own business that I didn't even realize the fact that's still not the base for everyone lol. I literally needed someone (her, bless you mia♡) else to point out for that lol.
*Worth noting tho that most of the time the kind of guys i feel interested in, carry heavy cancer, pisces and libra placements. Maybe I can kinda feel in them even without looking at their chart, that if i take no steps they will never start anything themselves.
I have no experience how would this placement of mine would work out if i'd happen to have crushes on confident men whom love to initiate. (Not shaming anyone, gals... i literally told that they're my type of men. I only feel comfy if I, Me start anything and initiate and control, god bless the men who let me. - Also the others. I prefer equality. They are just not for my liking.)
I also do carry a strong 'birthing' energy sorry it came to my mind this way. But i don't like kids (i have my moon, ceres and lilith all conjunction in aries, opposing my venus so no kids for me, no never lol) so i have this mommy energy present with grown a** men (yes, they are surprised, yes, they love it), also i'm veryyy very creative so i bring new things 'new lives' to the world this way.
Another thing came to my mind... that i'm veryyy impatient. But there's this thing, i'm generally tend to be indecisive / taking a long time to make a decision because of the strong libra energy present in my chart, but once i decided - i want it that minute hurry up. I do not allow anyone to make decisions instead of me even tho i'm not the fastest, i always have and need all the control.
An absolute
10/10!
Ascendant in Scorpio
Since i've got a lot of scorpio energy and i'm not 14 anymore, i can say that it's not just the fact that i got used to it - i learnt a LOT about myself in the past few years (kickstarted the journey with astrology), and this was the point when i started to really use this energy well.
Yes, i had to learn it. That pluto 1h + saturn 8th didn't make it easier for me either.
Still, even though i see myself capable and also educated now in handling this energy well, there are days when it's still just too much, even for me. I'm too tired for it. Too sensitive. Too good person.
Yes, worth noting: looking at myself and my actions from the perspective of other people - i have no problem doing this - a lot of times i have to be the 'bad guy'. No, it doesn't make me happy seeing you hurt. Yes, i can feel it too, i'm an empath. Yes, you needed it. Yes, you'll see you needed it yourself but that time i'll be already gone like nanny mcphee in that movie. I've got a lot to do and i never stay.
It's hard on the heart of mine you'll never believe i have. Also makes me worn out not just emotionally, but literally physically. Even though i got so much fire energy in my chart i personally think i could easily operate a vulcano lol. Good thing i'll always rise like a phoenix all the time, afterall.
TMI I have very little water energy in my chart mind you... (Literally the only ones are my Scorpio Asc, Pisces Ic and Saturn 8th h) so i'm absolutely Not comfortable with handling water, it's too much and not enough at the same time.
The fire does give me energy to handle this asc (no, it's not just brings power, it uses power to work) but i feel the weight of it heavier because of the lack of water in my natal chart. I genuiely think there's no perfect recipe for this placement tho, it's really difficult to deal with and require a lot of precision and cold thinking to navigate with in life. (I'm sure my virgo sun is a good match for it tho.)
10/9
Mercury in Libra in the 10th house
Love it! Finally an easy, light but powerful placement! We Need that here chat.❣️ Very charming, clear, silky speaking- and singing voice, very good with words, "good to listen", i love everything art but the top tier is literature<3 Also not 'just others' art', i can vocalize and express my own emotions and thoughts really well myself (wattpad poet lol).
I'm naturally talented at learning foreign languages even tho i'm sure that my 9th stellium also plays a big role in this (and my sn+ pluto conjunction in sag 1h.) I also pay a huge attention to use my mother language, hungarian in the best way possible, both grammatically and aesthetically. (Ofc i'm not on the same level in english but i do try to do my best there too.:) )
I can also memorize quotes really well, also copying the tone and emotions it was said with. I was always everyone's favourite one and popular everywhere with that skill of mine.
Also I have the amazing ability to easily slide over questions i got but don't want to answer, neither loudly refuse it. So i just get ignorant about it, charm other things into the conversation to steal the attention off of it, and we're already done.*
*Didn't realize what i'm doing in my whole life, nor did anybody use the same 'technique' upon talking to me, Until i started talking with an another libra mercury - like this year, at 22yo. (We also have them in conjunction in our synastry.)
He did the same with me, i didn't recognize it for DAYS what was happening, and then when i did, it was literally like looking into a mirror. Did not like the realization, still happy that it happened, ya girl loves to learn afterall<3.
Also it's wildly random but i like to write notes on my wrist(!), hands, arms (sometimes my joints in general) - even though i always have my phone and paper + pen combo near me - and i find it interesting that libra represents skin and mercury is about communication and (written) words:)
10/10!
Venus in Libra in the 11th house
I think the virgo energy makes me being perfect in almost everything i try, But my libra venus is the one that gets me interested in them! Yeah, mainly art that i use for self- expression but not just them.
I'm really beautiful and i also like beautiful things & people. I wanna note tho, that because of my house placement here, i have my very own, quirky- unusual opinion on what's pretty and what's not mind you. For ex. i find most of runway models average or straight off ugly, and i had several crushes on ppl who were told that they are ugly & they also believed they are.
People with iconic big noses, weird- looking eyes & eyeshapes, unusual shaped / proportioned lips and face structure (or body- parts in general), birth marks, freckles, skin condition are my liked- appearanced people.:)
I look the Best on camera, photos and videos:) which comes handy if you make content about / with showing yourself, yep, also your face:) i would even dare to say i look better on screen than irl. (Speaking only about my looks, not the impact i have - of course it's much stronger irl than on the screen.:) )
And I LOVE gossip lol! But i ain't spreading fake rumours fyi, i just love spilling and drinking tea🍵!<3 Girlhood (no i also love tea with men lol. No but i actually - men with strong libra energy are loving it too, we tend to find and then vibe rlly well with each other...)
Furthermore, I can be surpirisingly surface- leveled in opposition of the high scorpio energy in my chart. I have several crushes and loves at the same time, i am polyromantic, and i do love with a light grip. Falling in and out of love quickly & easily. Also I'm not territorial at all. More like hedonistic.
10/10!
Mars in Leo in the 9th house
(Btw this is my dom + one of my ruling planet!❤️)
Y'all might think (hecc even i read this myself many times here) that this is a very sexual, very high libido placement - i'm gonna disappoint y'all. I'm asexual and also sapiosexual. So i don't even have to say that there's very few men who gets my attention also able to spice me up. But when i get interested, i'm all in.
Incoming sentences are not just about sexual ventures.
I'm curious, creative, confident, brave, loves to try new things - actually have a Need for trying out new things in constant. I lob lob LOB to kickstart 209 new things at once because i Need the feeling of being excited over stg, wanna know how it will feel during / will be at the end, the new experiences and memories, also the slight stress and the adrenaline rushing!❣️
I personally think my 9th house leo mars is the responsible one for the immense love and constant need for starting new things, and my aries 5th h moon is absolutely here for it + have all the capacity needed to do that lol. They be blending together so well here like pb cream + jam.
I also have a high dislike for time frames (i take control of things, not vica versa) and really just finishing projects i started lol (eyeing you @pinksobg rn👀 sorry. But i'll finish that collab pac it's too good to not finish it i'm on it i will!!!!)
Ngl y'all shall never know the number of my unfinished projects - that stemmed from such amazing ideas i'm crying - they'll be rotting in my drafts, phone notes and on irl paper forever🙏💔 rip but who cares we will start at least 2 new things tomorrow anyway
😂😂 TMI Ever since i was a kid (like around 9yo) i remember i phrased myself that if I don't finish a drawing in a week, i never will, which is so funny to me to this day. Nailed perfectly at such a gentle age of 9, still like 90% true to this day.:D
Btw i'm also very easy to anger up (~3 words) and i get mad in a sec. I stand up, yell and gesticulate very agressively on the spot. Have to hold myself back from physical violence but your honor i only want to slap men tbh.😇 Also very easy to me to forget about a lot of things when i'm mad. Other people around us, my goodgirl image (i have my eve asteroid conjuncts my sun😇 & black moon lilith conjucts my moon😈) and the fact that i could use this energy in a much better way, aka on the spot i do not care lol.
I know fashion is more venus topiced, but i personally think mars affects my makeup & clothing preferences (not my natural appearance!) the most. I prefer wearing menswear or boyish fits in clothes, mostly oversized pieces, rarely crop tops.
I LOVE love love to wear the colors black, white, grey, hot pink & animal prints!❣️But I really don't like pondering over what should i wear i literally just rip stg out from the closet, so my full wardrobe is packed with kinda this styled pieces.❣️
I go without makeup 80% of the time, and i also do not enjoy doing my & others' makeup. Nor looking at other ppl doing it like contents or irl. Nooo. Buuut if i do it i absolutely, physically CANNOT go with stg shy pastel sht lol that leo working hard here omg... My fav picks are purple lipstick (or bloodred), lip glosses & tints with chunks of glitter in it, bigg cat shaped eye lines, sparkly black eyepencil, cyclamen & sparkly orange eye shadow..
Annd i LOVE those rhinestones ppl put on their face on festivals. I wear it inside and around the house🤠 never went to a festival in my whole life and i have 3 packs from them here at home hehehe~
I have to say tho that i already attract eyes very much without wearing any makeup and such strong / vivid colours. And when it comes to attention, i get all kind - not just the ones with good intentions ofc.
Shortly things happened in the past that made me to be Very lowkey outside of the house. But I've always wondered if i would feel inclined to do my makeup more often & also go for more revealing clothing if i could've make sure i'll be safe (very possible imo).
10/9
I don't know @sofstiltskin, i really enjoyed doing this little self- review. Do you think we could make it into a tag game, with everyone freely participating who wants to? ♡
Btw pls pls tag me like i tagged you or stg, i'm nosy af lol bye- bye mwahh💋💋
hi what’s ur thoughts on lillith conjunct moon ???
Lilith conjunct Moon 👀
The Moon rules your deepest feelings and comfort zones while Lilith is your rebellious side. You refuse to let anyone dictate how you should fee;. You have a very sharp intuition but it can also mean you feel a little emotionally misunderstood by the rest of the world or maybe even had a tricky dynamic with maternal figures growing up. It surely gives you a fiercely independent heart.
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💫Placements that are always searching for meaning:
Aquarius Moon, Scorpio Moon, Jupiter in Cancer, Jupiter in Capricorn(funny enough, these guys question things a lot, and they don't like blindly following things. George Carlin is an excellent example of this.) Sagittarius Rising, Gemini Rising, Sun-Pluto, Moon-Pluto, Moon-Uranus, Mercury-Uranus.
💫Mars in 3rd cannot be attracted to someone if there’s no mental stimulation. If there’s no amazing conversations, there is no attraction lel.
💫Jupiter in cancer could either be very spiritually connected to their mother, or they could be gifted with a spiritual mentor at some point in their life.
💫Capricorn Mercury can be stereotyped for being deadpan, but I’ve met quite a few of them that can be witty, charismatic, and very funny.
💫Mars in 11th could make very good influencers.
💫Libra MC- Can feel in their heart that their purpose is to bring people together, or create a way that everybody can be treated equally.
💫Jupiter in 7th love the idea of an ending to a story where everyone is happy. They like to romanticize the idea of even the villain turning good in the end somehow.
💫Uranus aspects, most of the time, show an area of your life that can be erratic, but Uranus can also show areas of your life that need a mastery of discipline. Uranus is associated with the sign of Aquarius, however Aquarius is also ruled by Saturn. This tells us that in order to have true freedom you need self-discipline as a prerequisite.
💫Moon conjunct Lilith: a wolf in sheep’s clothing. Very deep and intense, repressed sexual desire. When they let this repressed energy come to the surface they can be WILD.
💫Moon in 4th- there’s a pretty good chance that women are way more significant in their life than men.
💫Aquarius Venus, honestly, I think is the venus sign that is the most comfortable being alone, and I respect that.
💫Ik a lot of people stereotype Taurus for loving food, but sag tho…not only do they love food, but, boy, can they cook. For them, it’s not a thing of luxury, but it’s an art.🌮🍝🥗🥙🫕🍲
💫Someone with a combination of libra and virgo in their chart can be extremely protective of their loved ones, and in some cases overly protective. Virgo is associated with safety and perfectionism, and libra is concerned with “others”. They would probably make good crossing guards, or just guards in general.
💫Taurus mercuries could make very good salesmen imo. They can be very flirtatious like libra mercury, and they know how to make a sale sound enticing and luxurious.
Accuracy is influenced by the ENTIRE chart. Having the same placements does not mean they will manifest in the same way.
Moon conjunct Lilith - there is usually something unique about your mother. depending on the entire chart this varies - ex: your mom has a different skin complexion from you & your father. people mistake her as not being apart of your family. or the woman you see as mother is not your bio mom - she is an adoptive mom, a step mom, etc. these are extreme examples.
Jupiter opposite Venus - any jupiter/venus aspect has potential to be very tricky. You can find it difficult to discipline yourself, you can be very indulgent where these planets are placed.
ex: Venus in 1st H - Jupiter in 7th H - this person is a cheater. they get bored easily.
ex: Venus in 2nd - Jupiter in 8th - this person has been in a lot of debt. they knew they should have begun saving and budgeting but they couldn't deny themselves small fun purchases. these all added up and they recently needed to borrow 1k+ from their parents.
Child (4580) asteroid conjunct Venus in natal - This person's child has Venus conjunct their ascendant.
Libra Moon - A negative manifestation of this is a a mom who was obsessed with your appearance and/or her own.
ex: This boy’s mom is indian. She grew up in a predominately white country. She had many insecurities about herself. She was obsessed with the child being white and having no indian features. The day he was born, one of the first comments she made was negative about him having an “indian nose”. She projected a lot of her self hate onto him. This is one of the reasons he keeps distance from her.
ex: This girl’s mom was always on diets during her youth. She was obsessed with the girl having been born a natural blonde when she was a brunette. The girl developed an alt-style in her teens, this includes dyeing her hair. Her mom hated this. She would constantly make negative comments because the girl refused to look the way she wanted her to. This is one of the reasons the girl hasn’t spoken to her mom in years.
Accuracy depends on the entire chart. In these cases, the moon was harshly aspected and 4th H contained malefics. Luckily, these observations won’t apply to most libra moons. however, i’m sharing for the few who might relate.
Libra Moon - Another negative manifestation of this placement is a mom who chooses romantic partners over her child. Ik a guy who says his parents got a divorce when he was 2, after that the mom went through 2 more marriages with toxic men. It felt to him she would prioritize these men over him. She was desperate for a romantic partner. It was quite a sad story. In his case, Libra Moon was afflicted.
IC IN 5th House - When IC isn't in the 4th house, I've noticed the chart owner usually didn't spend their entire childhood at one home.. ex: parent divorced so they grew up in 2 homes. Or they grew up living at their grandparents for a signifiant amount of time.
Saturn in 4th H - You could have a physically or emotionally distance relationship with a parent or the birthplace. You may felt very lonely in childhood. Accuracy would depend on entire chart because a well placed saturn shows a structured and disciplined upbringing.
Saturn ruling 3rd H/Cap or Aqua 3rd H - You could have developed communication very slowly as a kid. This is very generic - aspects to mercury or mercury in 3rd or well placed mercury can change this.
VEDIC ASTRO - Upapada Lagna
imo UL should not be prioritized over D1 & D9. They should be read together. & D1 & D9 hold more power on what will happen in your life. Why I think this is because:
- ik someone who had a strong first UL but their d1 & d9 had many divorce indicators. They ended up getting a divorce.
- ik another who had a UL that indicates breakup and no marriage for their first relationship. This person was single their entire life prior to marriage. They genuinely didn’t even have friends of the opposite sex. D1 & D9 shows a strong & supportive marriage. They are 30+ years into their marriage. Personally knowing them very well, ik they aren’t going to get a divorce.
- The relationship UL shows can be difficult to define to one person. UL isn’t always the marriage partner, it can be relationships prior. When UL doesn’t indicate it, these relationships don’t turn into serious/committed relationships. I would like to know other people’s thoughts and experiences with UL. You may be able to experience the UL without even realizing it.
UL is better read alongside D1 & D9. D1/Natal is the sky you were born under, no other chart holds power over it.
What does it mean if my libra moon is conjunct my black moon libra Lilith?
💗🌙 Peace Beloved ✌🏾
Aweee okie so ♎️ Libra Moon conjunct Lilith in Libra ♎️
First of all, you are here on a mission. Definitely look into your female lineage, you are here to break some sort of deep rooted pattern. You may have already done it— feel honored to be the one to do this task. It may feel like a burden because it will require great strength and patience to acknowledge and observe the toxic feminine habits that run in your dna (Lilith) ~ and because it’s your moon here, it’s a lot of uncomfortable feelings surrounded femininity and balance in this masculine-run world. You’ll see a lot of inequality in this lifetime as well as past lives you experienced massive trauma. You’ll want to fight for justice and advocate for other women. Please do! You’re a sacred warrior in these parts, a navigator of divine peace and justice. A lot of trauma stems from feeling helpless or over compensating yourself in past lifetimes and even early on in this one. This is nothing small, it’s powerful and it’s important you focus on healing your feminine energy so you can more clearly hear your intuition and tap into that Libra energy in a fierce Queen of Swords way, let go of the 8 of swords if you catch my drift here ♎️✨💖 Libra is air, it’s all calculated, keep calm and uproot the system with your brilliant mind. Let the emotions show you where you’re needed.
Lilith is magnetic and the first true woman to live as she freely desired, this placement is very powerful indeed! Allow your dark feminine energy to attract all + do the work for you. Let go of external pressures once and for all. Live by your own truth.
💚 hope that helped!
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