BRENDA: DREAMER. KNITTER. COFFEE DRINKER. AUNTIE. I want a church where a survivor like me can worship without fear…. I want a church where a survivor like me can fellowship without being objectified ... just for being alive in this body. Please—let me just “be"; I want to just be. I don’t want to be judged for and by this shell that your book says doesn’t matter…..judged for its sexuality, for its perfect imperfections, for its glorious size. Please. Make it not matter.









