Helping hands – like most of you there were moments in my life when I asked for helping hands, and there were often none there. Like many of you I have stopped asking for help, since I remember the terrible aftertaste. It’s not even matter of NOT receiving help, but people’s generally “dismissive” attitudes or expressions of “pity”, which are not only unhelpful, but inflict another pain on the heart. As human empathy is useless in crisis I have learnt to make up a handful of imaginary hands. Hands that can’t lend a hand to help, but keep my heart warm and my head high! #myownhand #help #hands #helpinghand #helpinghands #helpingothers https://www.instagram.com/p/Bp7m7DmgY50/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=uu3bjduz0p4m











