tobirama x trans male reader. sfw but him coming out to tobirama.
coming out to tobirama as trans
includes — tobirama senju x m!reader
note — i had a hard time picturing him and what he would say... but as a trans guy, i think i just self projected here lmao
tobirama senju
you had to prepare a week in advance, just to mentally prepare yourself.
cause lets be honest, having to sit down with someone and come out to them is nerve-wracking enough but when it’s someone like tobirama? it can be even more so
when it finally comes down to it, you tell him you have something important to say. hearing you say that made him a tiny bit nervous. internally of course.
he thought he did something wrong lol
either way, sitting down and talking to him about it was a lot easier than you expected. he sat through it all carefully listening to your words and taking it all in.
he waited till you were finished and by then you could tell he was a little confused. he asked simple questions like,
“what does it mean to be trans” (i'm sure he’s met a few trans people in his life but i doubt he fully grasps the concept lol)
in the end, the best way to put is that tobirama doesn’t really care. (a harsh way to put it ik)
a better way of saying it is, his feelings for you aren't going to change, no matter your gender. he’ll still love you the same.
if you come to him with any problems you might be having, like you’re feeling very dysphoric that day, he’ll try his best to help in any way you can.
you want to cut your hair shorter? ....he sucks at cutting hair, he’ll probably get hashirama to do it for you lol
feeling bad about your chest? he’ll try to get you a binder.
someone’s giving you shit or a hard time? he’s gonna step up with his incredibly intimidating presence and force the person to back off
either way, tobirama is generally accepting of you. even if he doesn’t completely understand at first, he’ll make the effort for you :)
Can you please write headcannons for being Kakashi's wife? ❤
asdfghjkl;; all I wanna be is Kakashi’s wife >
Kakashi Wife Headcanons
I honestly, even though it saddens me, don’t think Kakashi would ever be ready to commit to someone in the form of marriage. He’s experienced a lot of trauma with love in general and would feel undeserving of something as special as becoming someone’s husband. It would take a lot for his lover to convince him to settle down and marry if that’s what they’re looking for.
However, when he finally comes around to it, he’d be a great husband and so being his wife wouldn’t really be all that hard.
While he might come off as more traditional in some ways, I think he’d want his wife to have a life outside the home too. Kakashi would want his wife to have a job and a role in society and not just be a typical “housewife” or “mother” (if they choose to have kids).
Kakashi’s already pretty good at maintaining a routine (he’s a Virgo and it shows…). He can cook for himself, he cleans after himself, and is pretty responsible. However, after he becomes Hokage, it’s a lot harder to see him. So, Kakashi loves it when his wife comes by to drop off a bento box lunch every now and then.
When he’s Hokage, he might forget to do basic things like rest. While Kakashi doesn’t slack off, he gets absorbed in his work all the time. Remind him to take breaks and stop by to ask him out for a small walk around the village.
Office sex
He expects his wife to understand what it means to be the Rokudaime’s wife. This might be the most difficult thing about the relationship. There may be times, he is strict with you because of it so to not tarnish his or your reputations and keep the village’s best interest in mind.
On the other hand, Kakashi in my opinion (is an Aquarius moon) is rather progressive which is what makes him a great leader. He’s also a pretty laid-back guy, so he wouldn’t mind being seen with his wife in public. In fact, you two just might make the headlines every now and then and be the power couple of the village!
That being said, he also doesn’t flaunt the relationship outside.
He loves it when people compliment his relationship with his wife and will always speak highly of you to others. He’d say things like, “Y/N? I don’t know what I’d do without her honestly.”
If you are Kakashi’s wife that means you’re his rock. Even if you rely on him too, you’ll never fully understand just how much he depends on you. He needs you there.
Is rather laid back with his children neither doting on his children or ignoring them, he’s not as interested in his children when they are really young, prefers spending time with them when they’re old enough to hold opinions and thoughts.
Loves his child/children but doesn’t express it often or really know how to. Isn’t very good at expressing feelings or talking about how he feels.
Likes teaching his children things about becoming a ninja, and enjoys training them, this is probably by far his favorite part of being a father and being able to guild them and help them become skilled and strong.
Very protective of his children and would do anything to make sure they are safe, Often overly concerned and overly protective. Even little things make him nervous like when his children are learning to walk, however he doesn’t openly express or show his concern or how nervous he is over things like this. Extremely over protective and concerned if he has a daughter.
Believes his children are better, smarter and stronger then other children around his children’s ages. and has no problems with saying so or about bragging about his children to others.
Secretly enjoys holding his children, picking them up or holding their hands. He often acts annoyed or bothered but actually enjoys a lot of small things like this with his children. Only his S/O would be able to see through him and tell when he’s enjoying himself and when he’s not.