ARCsexual Torenflexible anon: My romantic attraction is very strange either. I don’t experience romantic attraction so I don’t know if it is fluid and/or fluxing. I only had crushes on binary men, and they were masculine-presenting, and my crushes are connected only to my aesthetic attraction and develop after it. I can find a feminine presenting person beautiful, but I can’t fallen in love with them. If person is masculine in gender and in presentation, this is 100% chance I’ll love them.
I wish there could be aesthetiromantic and romoaesthetic/romosthetic identities already coined but you can use these:
Apresromantic | Apressthetic / Apresaesthetic: Only experiencing romantic/aesthetic attraction after another form of attraction is felt. The attraction originally felt may or may not fade away over time, the new attraction replacing it.
Quoiromantic / WTFromantic / Whatromantic | Quoisthetic / Quoiaesthetic / WTFaesthetic / WTFsthetic / Whatsthetic / Whataesthetic: Having a hard time distinguishing romantic/aesthetic attraction from other types of attractions, or being unable to distinguish them at all (one of the defs).
Amantesthetic / Amanteaesthetic: only feeling aesthetic attraction towards someone you’re in love with/not feeling aesthetic attraction until you’re in love with someone.
Sequencesthetic / Sequenceaesthetic: Only experiencing aesthetic attraction to someone after experiencing romantic attraction to that person.
Minromantic: Feeling romantic attraction to masculine identifying people.
Maromantic / Manromantic: Romantic attraction to men.
Mascic: Umbrella term for everyone attracted to men/boys.
Mascromantic / Andromantic / Androromantic: romantic attraction to men &/or masculine individuals.
Mascuromantic: attraction to masculinity (expressions/presentations) regardless of gender identity/alignments.
Viramoric / Virromantic: attraction to men, exclusively or primarily (intended for non-binary or genderqueer people who have trouble fitting themselves into the straight-gay binary as a result of not fitting into the male-female binary).
Multisthetic / Multiaesthetic / Pluristhetic / Pluriaesthetic: aesthetic plurality, attracion to multiple genders; umbrella for bisthetic/biaesthetic, polyaesthetic/polysthetic, omnisthetic/omniaesthetic and panaesthetic/pansthetic.
Parosthetic / Paroaesthetic: An orientation in which you experience different methods of aesthetic attraction to the genders you are aesthetically attracted to.
Nibian: nonbinary attracted to binaries (nblb/nlb/xlb).
Binian: binary loving binary individuals (blb).
Anibian: anonbinary loving binaries (anblb/axlb/anlb).
Noceteroromantic / Noceteromantic: attracted to binary people.
Amplusic / Amplusromantic: when your attraction isn’t strict to just one identity, unleashed from the spectrum corners. Umbrella term for any nonstatic, nonsolid and nonstable orientation. They can be greya-/graya-, merc-, abro-/-fluid, -flexible/flexi-, -flux-, myr-, duo- or propeest- for example.
