Hello! I hope you’re having a good week and had a happy holidays if you celebrate :) I was wondering if I could request a free reading please?
My question is: Does my mom truly care about my feelings?
I don’t know if it’s okay to add additional info but I would like to if that’s okay: She always gets mad at me when I accuse her of not caring about my feelings or neglecting them, but every time I try to talk to her about literally anything that hurts my feelings or makes me upset/angry/annoyed, etc. she’s super rude and dismissive and just doesn’t gaf. So idk if I’m being delusional or what because I feel no care/grace coming from her. So can I please know if she does acknowledge and actually genuinely cares about my feelings?
Thank you so much! Sorry if this comes across as venting I hope it doesn’t because that’s not my intention I just felt better adding extra info :)
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First off, I'm sorry you're going through that. That sounds really unpleasant to deal with and I hope it improves for you. No need to worry about venting to me. It's really part of reading Tarot and i don't mind hearing about the concerns of others, especially if I can be there for them in some way. I hope this reading can be that for you and maybe offer you some insight and some power in this situation, though it's never easy dealing with that with a parent.
King of Wands, reversed: This card is very telling of your mother's capabilities when it comes to taking the things she feels outwardly and putting them into action. She seems to lack emotional maturity, which can lead to things like being defensive when confronted and deflecting. It's not an indicator that she doesn't care; but that she's really, really bad at aligning feelings and actions, especially in the heat of the moment.
VIII of Cups: This card can indicate an avoidance of emotion or of accountability. This is likely a defense mechanism and it's 100% not helpful to reconciling in the way you're trying to do. It might seem like the more effort you put in, the more she retreats. This again speaks of her emotional immaturity and her inability to allow herself to reflect on her feelings and even to feel them. Instead, she just gives into the knee-jerk emotional response, especially if the emotional response is a negative one.
III of Cups: This card is a card of love. There is a bond of love and care here. But unfortunately, it is below the surface and may not be expressed in the ways that you need or are looking for. There is the impression that love may only be expressed in low-risk, less vulnerable ways--things like little outings or gifts--and that your mother may not necessarily know how to show up in the ways that are important to you. All that said, I do not think that a love that doesn't meet your needs is something you should have to settle for, especially from a parent. I would recommend seeking out more low-risk bonding opportunities while finding your way to something more vulnerable and fulfilling together.
I hope this helps and offers some understanding. And I hope you are able to continue advocating for your needs in this relationship.
