So I've been seeing a lot people talking about something that is new to me, which is trixic and toric sexualities. I always knew there must be labels for non-binary peoples' sexualities, but never knew what they were called. Another thing that I am aware of is that lots of people are now using the trixic and toric labels to invalidate other enby's sexualities.
Amab enbies can call themselves gay. They have male anatomy and are comfortable using it to describe their attraction.
Amab enbies can use toric to describe their attraction because they are comfortable not basing their sexuality off of their anatomy.
Afab enbies, like myself, can call themselves lesbians. They have female anatomy and are comfortable using it to describe their attraction.
Afab enbies can use toric to describe their attraction because they are more comfortable not basing their sexuality off of their anatomy.
It is not for you to decide what labels someone can or can't use for themselves. You can give them options, or express what your interpretation of a word is. But you do not get to dictate what label they then choose to use.