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I know it’s been disproven now but I’m still laughing over the fact that there was ever the myth that back dimples meant you have a crazy sex life
I myself have these “Dimples of Venus” but I’m also asexual, sex-repulsed, and a non-libidoist
I can’t help but be a bit amused at the complete opposing nature of those things asdfghjkl
Nah but I’m still turnt tf up 💃🪩🕺
flag id: a flag with 3 stripes, in the background, which are light sandy brown, faded gold, and green. in the center of the flag are 3 triangles, each one smaller than the last and with one side at the top edge of the flag. the largest triangle's tip reaches the bottom center of the flag and its top side takes up the entire top edge of the flag. from smallest/highest up to largest/lowest down, the triangles are light pink-grey, wine red, and very dark purple. end id.
banner id: a 1600x200 teal banner with the words ‘please read my dni before interacting. those on my / dni may still use my terms, so do not recoin them.’ in large white text in the center. the text takes up two lines, split at the slash. end id.
selenolic: being both sexless and a non-libidoist
[pt: selenolic: being both sexless and a non-libidoist. end pt]
sexless nonlibidoist term for anon! the term is 'se' and 'le' from 'sexless', 'no' and 'li' from 'nonlibidoist', + 'ic'.
tags: @radiomogai, @liom-archive, @macchiane, @genderstarbucks
tags cont: @p-rtyboy, @dragonpride17
dni link
Patrick from Love and Deception is asexual and nonlibidoist!
Sora from Sora & Koto is asexual and nonlibidoist!
any other non-libidoists (ppl who don't experience sexual arousal) out there who feel like, though they're undoubtedly missing out on a lot of the fun of sex, they have a better understanding than most people of the different "layers" of horniness/the Abstract Sexual Mood, or rather a better understanding of the psychological side of sex in its distilled essence, since they can be very much "mentally aroused" without any physical sensations attached to it?
like...i can very much feel mentally turned on and enjoy sex and be in a sexual mood, i can co-create phantasies and play with my partner and be excited and know what to do and what to say and have fun while doing it... it's just that my body doesn't feel any different... and touching my genitals feels the same as touching my knee lol. and i have no fucking idea what an orgasm feels like and probably never will. and it's been a year since i even attempted to masturbate (gave up after a minute lmao).
but i just feel like it would be harder for most people to differentiate these layers (mental vs physical arousal) bc they probably tend to always experience them at the same time? soo...maybe our unique perspective is epistemologically valuable, too? lol
I discovered the term nonlibidoist and I'm curious to work out whether I fit under it but its difficult when my sense of sexuality (in all meanings of the word) feels so indescribable under the current language around sexuality. And its not really something I can just ask random people about because working it out would involve unpacking / discussing explicit themes. Idk.
Intro
Nonlibidoist: someone who does not have a libido for any reason, may or may not also be asexual.
This sideblog is run by an apothisexual nonlibidoist plural sys. We are not comfortable giving our system name or talking about any of our other identities here, but we wanted to create this blog for nonlibidoists like us to have a space where we can be safe to talk about our experiences without judgement, and maybe feel less alone.
Rules for submitting stuff to this blog (if you want it to get posted) :
1: The ask or submission should be related to being nonlibidoist, unless it is, like, advice on how to make this blog more accessible.
2: Mentions and VAGUE descriptions of NSFW acts and such will likely be necessary to some degree due to the nature of this topic, but there is no need to go into extremely graphic levels of detail.
3: no exclusionism/bigotry of any kind. everyone’s identities are valid.
Thank you for reading this long intro!
