To the anon who wrote saying they wished Xenia were more on the vanilla side canonically - thank you for sharing that. I would actually also prefer it if Xenia ends up being a passionate but not exactly "domme" lover once we do get around to that part of her route. I know she's being set up for that but I'm ace and not really into that sort of thing so it's nice to dream, I guess. And I agree - her route is not about sex but deep intimacy, respect and consent in general. Just - you're not alone.
And that's 100% valid, dear 😊 I'm demi, so I completely understand the need for a strong intimate (not sexual) connection. But I feel this this also kind of stereotypes domme/sub relationships as only being purely about sex, pleasure and/or pain - And while that may be true for some, that's not necessarily true for all. It takes an immense amount of trust to have a healthy and working bdsm relationship. A sub's trust in their domme has to be inately deeper than just physical. And there can still be passion and love between the two. But I agree, Xenia's route isn't about sex, it's always been about the deeper connection, and I LOVE that about her. Intimacy, respect and consent is key in any relationship! And I'm sure you aren't the only ones who canonically view Xenia as a more 'vanilla' lover 😊 - Mod Runa
