This probably sounds condescending as fuck but.
Do you ever get used to not getting praised when you succeed like. Of course you did, you're supposed to. It's you. You're the golden child.
And then people get disappointed whenever you have the smallest failure.
So you just get used to never getting praised and thinking yeah, I'm supposed to succeed it's nothing unnatural. And beating yourself up over every little mistake? Despite not getting praise even if you succeed.
So when you do something that to you is nothing big and suddenly everyone is praising you're confused, annoyed and just want to live your life. It's too late to praise me anyway, and I could have done much better.















