... and please get some REAL Therapy from a REAL Therapist, someone trained before 1990!
Also, until then, don’t go On-Line or Out-Of-The-House Unsupervised!
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... and please get some REAL Therapy from a REAL Therapist, someone trained before 1990!
Also, until then, don’t go On-Line or Out-Of-The-House Unsupervised!
Phroyd
Yes! Please, let’s not “Offend” The Self-Proclaimed “Guardians Of The Victimized”!
Phroyd
I don’t believe in over-sensitivity, every feeling is valid. But I’m a firm believer in over-blaming.
Haptephilia steve/bucky/howard
"When you said the serum made you more sensitive, I never woulda thought you meant this sensitive."
"Why do you think the suit covers every inch of his body?" Bucky shot Howard a wry grin across Steve's body, propping himself up higher on one elbow and trailing gentle fingers down the blond's abdomen, watching the clenching muscles with appreciation.
You do your best for some people but some of them are honestly beyond help sometimes... How does your thought process even work? Le sigh
The word "nigger," more than any other word, scares the shit out of white people. And a lot of the time it should. It's loaded like Uncle Jack over the holidays, and has a dirty history, also like Uncle Jack. But if Sam Jackson asks you to say it, in the context of a discussion about its use in a movie Sam Jackson stars in and the perceived controversy around it, is it racist? Fuck no! How can you talk about something you refuse to say? That's idiotic. Even Harry Potter knew it was OK to use Voldemort's name. Pretend it's evil and magical and you give it more power than it deserves. Does this mean you should go to Starbucks tomorrow and belt out, "Gimme a mochaccino, nigga!"? No. God no. Because in that context, it is inappropriate. As inappropriate as following it up with "and put some cinnamon on it, bitch tits!" There's no need. We've become so afraid of the word "nigger" that we have to call it "the N-word," and we're starting to do it with other words, too. Like "retard." But the thing is, an offensive word is offensive in context. It can't exist in a void. You're a fool to use it as a racial epithet, as an insult directed at a real person who deserve it in no way, just like you'd be a fool to call someone with Down syndrome a retard. I'd go so far as to say a person who does that is retarded. But if you want to discuss the history of Africans in America and racism, can you not use the word? Should you be afraid of it? You can't be. It makes it the boogeyman of words. It makes it so two people, in the privacy of their own home, wince if they happen to hear it on TV. You should never let a word control you, intimidate you, or make you uncomfortable, and that applies to people of all races. Intent is where insult lies, and hate. Not in language.
Felix Clay, "4 Situations That Make White People Feel Racist"
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