Selfish or Self FIRST? Before you jump to react to someone being selfish.... how about you check in and see if they have just put themselves first - the way it is supposed to be. Sometimes we view someone as selfish when we feel we are not getting what we "deserve" from them or what we "need" from them. Have you ever thought of taking a page out of their book and taking care of yourSELF FIRST? This is the way it is supposed to be - we must nourish ourselves FIRST in order to be able to be in good space with other people. We cannot enter friendships or relationships with other people expecting them to fill a void within us that we did not take the time to fill ourselves! Think about this - REALLY think about it, then try it out. Just like anything, it takes practice but, once you apply it you will start to feel stronger, more self sufficient and balanced in all of your connections with other people!! #pandorap #psychic #intuitive #psychicmedium #meditation #lightworker #positivethinking #selffirst #pandorapsychic #psychicsofinstagram #firstloveyourself #selflove #spirituallifecoach #soulmates #soulpurpose #motivationalspeaker (at The Windy City) https://www.instagram.com/p/CMqrxZMn1Q_/?igshid=4zx3hgbho0qp