Not all women want to be sold a dream at least not a empty one fellas. It seems like some of you believe this is the way you go about getting what you want and in all reality its really not. Im not a man but i am a woman and i know what women want and its not a dream its a reality. I want honesty from jump because at the end of the day i know you want something but its a way to go about it. Be honest .... thats it just be honest. I know your probably thinking honesty gets you no where but i do know it will get you closer to what you want with the person your suppose to get it from. Thats it read that sentence again...honesty will get you what you want from the person you are suppose to get it from period. I don't feel honesty should be earned like trust because this is something that is instilled in us from young. Mommy and Daddy always taught the don't lie tell the truth always so why do it? Im sure your parents did not teach you to lie especially to get what you want. Give the woman the choice if she wants to give you exactly what your asking for. Don't throw a blind fold on her and trick her into giving you whatever it is you may want. A woman will respect your honesty and because you were so honest she just might say what the hell why not.
Most of the time all men want from you may be intimacy and sometimes ladies we just have to see if for what it is. We can't turn every man into the one because its only ONE. Accepting that ok this will just be for fun will make things less complicated. I know every man i meet is not looking for what i want and thats ok. Not all men are made to be close to you some are made to teach you a lesson, spoil you a little, shower you with compliments and some are just there to admire your beauty. Knowing what you want at that moment will help you not to believe the hype or that empty dream he's selling you.We often get caught up with the whole i want marriage and children before a certain age we forget to live first. Then we try to make every man we meet “the one”. Trust Mr.Sell you a Dream is not the one he may be some fun but he is not the one! So when and if you run into a Mr.Sell you a Dream stop him in his tracks and simply ask the question what is it that you want ? Let him tell you and its up to you if you want him to co-star in your movie aka your life. The only thing you can say is yes or no and i would rather have a choice than to be stuck somewhere with a empty dream and my panties....ooops i mean my heart on the floor!!!! loll