Pluto 4H natal or transit folks, listen up
You should keep your personal secrets that have affected your emotional state to yourself or until after you’ve healed from it. Frankly I think don’t even try to share it after you’ve healed. Do not open up to your family members or roommates about your lore, ESPECIALLY IF YOU HAVE HAD PREVIOUS ISSUES. They will use that information to HURT YOU or CONTROL YOU.
I find that living this transit, I’ve let my guard down with family about my private personal life and regretted it deeply. It has negatively affected how they viewed me and damaged our relationship especially when it’s thrown back in my face during an argument. Ha! You will never know me personally again! It has shifted dynamics and opinions of me in negative ways. Imagine telling your sibling or father something hurt you terribly years ago and the minute you upset them that’s the moment they choose to throw back to hurt you? Yeah. Your private life needs to be under the fiercest protection. I’m not sure Pluto will truly allow you to keep things under wraps for too long but at least it’s not you choosing to the hand the knife to your killer.
Literal strangers have helped me or provided me solace. Pluto in the 4th makes the dysfunctional family or people you let in close to you really turn the fuck up and shock you in ways that change how somebody can hurt you for years to come.
