#positivelyagender

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a lot of cis lgb and straight people like to think nonbinary and transgender people Have to have dysphoria without realizing the cause of dysphoria is not from how i view myself, its how they view me. i didnt have a problem with my body until cis people did

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if youre bi and trans i love you 💛

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hair evolution~ the first pic is the last time i shaved my head (oct. 2018) and the third pic is from last month (june 2019).

for everybody i meet that says they wish they had the balls to shave their head i say the same thing every time. it grows back 💅

edit: i just realized im wearing the same plaid shirt in the last 2 pics. very bisexual of me

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if i, a Queer, talks about Queer things, to Queer people, in the Queer community then that means i am not talking to non-queer people.

its not about you, im not calling you queer, the conversation doesn't include you and you can move on with your day. queer people understand this and i need lgbtq+ people to not jump on them for saying a word we chose to reclaim that's not inherently bad. to some of you it's still a slur but let's not forget to a lot of people gay is the worse slur and that turned out to be the umbrella term for same gender love huh

queer is an amazing word we can use when when a label doesn't emcompass you, if you fall in a grey area, if youre multiple things it can just be easier to say queer and get it over. lots of people don't have any labels and just use queer plain and simple. it's a freeing word, much more than gay which is just about sexuality. please just leave the queer community alone if you're not queer.

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I was thinking of adding a new mod since me and jace don't work on actively keeping this blog up anymore. we still post to it but it is definitely not as active as it used to be, the queue has long since run out. I was thinking of adding another person to keep the queue filled or you can just actively post to it. We post positivity for nonbinary and transgender people and specifically agender people so I would like for the mod to also be agender. We also post aesthetics and general positivity and nice memes! We stay away from the discourse for the most part and dont reply to any either. We speak up when needed. It's really easy to keep up with this blog. We don't have much follower interaction so you won't be tumblr famous lol we've got 900-somethin followers and they're all precious and you really get fond of them but I've had this blog for uhm more than 2 years and it's always been rewarding but its a quiet quait blog~

The mod would have to be agender and 18+, both of us are 23 and would be uncomfortable with a minor. Laid back. Not post discourse or any kind of nsfw. Somebody who understands our blog and is familiar with the content.

If you're interested just message us and I'll send you a message from my personal blog!! I would love the help! -ben

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Gay update: im bald and 22 as of today ! -ben (the/them)

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anybody wanna give me money in order to have a shopping spree? i have been so dysphoric lately ive just donated so much clothes but didnt consider that i need to,,, wear clothes lol -ben (they/them)

Pay Benbe Orsini using PayPal.Me

Go to paypal.me/beno10 and type in the amount. Since it’s PayPal, it's easy and secure. Don’t have a PayPal account? No worries.

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Hey everyone it’s ben! This past week has been quite the week. We went to go see my family in Atlanta and had a great time but returning my car broke down and it was very costly and took my entire savings.

On top of that, when we got home in new york we had been kicked out of jace’s parents house. We have a place to stay but funds are so low and it was a tough move. I hate to ask but my paypal is always opened if anyone would like to donate to this queer and agender couple.

My paypal is [email protected]

Jace and i have overcome a lot and you guys have watched it all here bc we’ve had this blog longer than we’ve even been together. We appreciate you guys so much 💛

Much love 💛