hey nox, thanks so much for the post on demeter, i really appreciate the work that goes into your answers. after seeing your post on priapus, i am wondering if you can help me understand the aspects to priapus in my natal chart? the myths are worrisome tbh but since it's conjunct my sun in the 10th, i feel like i can't avoid thinking about how it might be manifesting for me as a woman. i also know they're not directly related but if it helps provide context, hermes is conjunct my sun exact. here's my chart info if you have time, thanks ~
hello, thank you for your patience and for sending me your chart!! i appreciate the follow up ask with the updated chart, but, considering the information shared in that ask, i decided to respond to this ask only. considering that i don't know how much you would like to share publicly!!
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ALSO ALSO you can turn on aspects "to all objects" in order to note which asteroids aspect one another.
on to the ask(s). i do not believe that hestia is a problem for you! in calculating the orb without the aspects between all objects on, i would say your hestia and priapus don't aspect one another. i calculated a 108° (120° is a prefect trine; the orb is at max 10° so that would be 12° and generally i don't see that as a trine) which falls outside of the realm of a trine! the lack of boundaries with a parent may not have much to do with priapus but it could be the priapus-hermes aspect because hermes was his possible father. i generally look at zeus, apollo, and asclepius for troubled parenting :). hestia also did things of her own free will so someone like ganymed - who was basically captured then made to be the cupbearer of the heavens and replaced hebe, the goddess of youth - is a better asteroid to look into.
capricorn priapus (10°, 22°): these people may not have much of a sex life due to lack of being out in the world to find partners or because they experience sexual dysfunction(s) - erectile dysfunction, low sex drive, sexual pain disorder, etc. they often experience depression surrounding sex - could be due to lack of sexual opportunity or lack of desire for sex. there could also be depression or difficulty surrounding origin - you may not feel satisfied with who your father is. you could feel like you are ruined on romance and/or sex because of something that occurred “pre-birth” or pre-adolescence (before periods or before voice change/ball dropping (is that the masculine equivalent lol i am trying)). you could help people who feel dissatisfied with their sex life.
libra priapus (7°, 19°): i am always a bit worried when i seen venus involved with priapus. these people often are a player and/or are emotionally unavailable - they see love and sex as the same thing. they tend to think all there is to a relationship is the sexual component. often they do not commit to a relationship because why have just one person for sex? love for them is sex. often this steams from some moment in their childhood perhaps they were exposed to sexuality at a young age or they had emotional unavailable parents who didn’t really interact with one another in that way. these people may be capable of helping others who are co-dependent in partnerships.
10h priapus: something about your sexual status is known publicly to everyone around you - this makes you both desired and judged. it could also be the case that there is public drama regarding who your father is - he could be someone powerful in the community, it could be that the public doubts he is your father, or it could be about his own sexual status in the community... you may find that any of this existing drama has made it so you have less opportunity in life than others around you - you could be asked for sexual favors in order to climb the ranks or something along those lines. you could however be a great cheerleader to those around you when it comes to reaching their fullest potential.
sun (10h) - priapus (10h): positive aspects: you could discover sexual strength and strength in your own sexuality at some point in life. you may be known somehow as someone who is sexually capable - someone who should be lusted after and/or someone who is sexually confident. you could feel that you overcome a lot of shortcomings and gossip regarding your sexuality. you could help others become comfortable with their sexuality. negative aspects: you could feel like your sexual status holds you back or that sex is what stops you from achieving more... you may feel like your father’s status in the community or his role/lack of role in your life has ruined you from achieving the goals in your life. you may feel you lack confidence in your sexuality. you should always keep tabs on your sexual health and regularly get tested and/or see your doctor.
venus (11h) - priapus (10h): positive aspects: you may find that you have high standards for your romantic life - you should never lower your bar. you may have a weakness for thinking people who act friendly towards you are flirting in actuality... they aren’t. you could be someone who asks “is this okay?” often or you may be someone who does acts of service to show you care. you want everyone to feel safe and cared for around you.
saturn (12h) - priapus (10h): positive aspects: there is nothing wrong with abstinence, despite what others tell you and what the media promotes. do not fall for other people’s manipulations that you should “just do it” or their gaslighting of “you don’t want to be alone forever do you?” because all of that is bullshit. you won’t be alone forever - it is okay to save yourself and/or have high standards. you are someone who needs to be shown diligence, fidelity, a foundation, monogamy, commitment - you will be by the right person. until then it is okay to be "alone," "stiff," or whatever else people may say to you to manipulate you into being sexual active.
priapus (10h) - hermes (10h): positive aspects: at times you may look at their parent(s) - your father - and say with confidence that this is whom they have come from. you could see some similarities in gestures and ambitions. negative aspects: other times you can't help but say you are nothing like your parent(s) - your father. you may even say you would never be so uninvolved or disinterested in your child as your parent(s) may be in you. you may not even know who your father really is.
hope this helps.
a.d.
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