Replies to; how to win the mun's heart
Be kind or at least nice to people. Even to strangers; she can't stand arrogant/cocky people.
Treat others the way you want to be treated.
Show affection towards children/babies. She loves them.
Listen to music all the time or show her that you can't live without music. That could possibly be what all this sums up to, to be honest.
Be.. mature. I mean- and childish, at the same time- Oh god, it's hard to explain. But don't be a complete child around her, it annoys her. But be serious and mature when you need to be.
You've got to love reading. Now that's a big one.
Be accepting and open-minded. She will not tolerant any kind of prejudice around her.
Uhm.. oh, smile. But truly smile. She has to force a smile on her face many times a day, so seeing a genuine one every once in a while would definitely worth something to her.
Speak your thoughts. Don't hide yourself around her and don't pretend to be someone you're not.
Tell her when she does something wrong instead of ignoring her.
Do not try to win her heart by buying her things or giving her gifts. Although actions matter to her, material things don't, so don't opt for that.
Understand that she won't trust you completly at once. It takes a lot of time and patience from you.
Be there for her when she's at her lowest. Hug her, you don't need to say anything. Just hold her.
Bring her a cup of hot tea while she's reading.
If you feel like she's been needy or clingy, just cuddle with her. That's probably what she wants, but is too afraid to say or ask.
If she's been too quiet the whole day, face her and force her to say what's wrong. Don't leave until she tells you.
Don't come around and apologize after a fight if she's the one who needs to apologize. Let her learn from her mistakes.
If you're close enough to her, she won't mind skinship at all. She loves it. Hold her hand, give her pecks on the face or whatever, that kind of stuff makes her happy.
If you're still getting to know her, don't touch her. She'll pull away instantly and act all shy and quiet.
Make her laugh, but don't be too goofy.
Do not splash water on her, in any circumstances. Unless she tells you it's okay.
..When she begins drawing on her thighs with red lipstick, grab another one and join her.
Respect her friends. She doesn't have many, but she treasures those who are close to her, a lot. Hurt them and you'll never get to talk to her again.
Be protective. She's weak and a complete coward and she cannot protect herself.
Don't agree with everything she says or does just to please her. If she's doing something wrong, tell her right at that second and don't agree to do it.
Listen to her one hour rants at 3 in the morning. Then rant as well for another two.
Share. She shares a lot with her friends, whether it'd be food, music, clothes, books, whatever; so doing the same would make her happy.
When she doesn't want to tell you about her past, don't push her. She'll tell you when she's ready. Be patient.
If you're in a group of friends or whatever, with her, and she's too awkward or quiet, subtly pull her to the side and away from it. It'd help her a lot.
She has a lot of mood-swings. Be there for her at those times.
Stay. Most importantly, stay; no matter how hard it gets. If you show her that you came to stay, then you're halfway there to win her heart.