#ptbha

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When is it ok to give up?

Its never okay to give up on yourself.

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If it's been over 2 years, why haven't I moved on? She has. I don't think I'll ever find what I had with her. I trusted her like nobody else. Why fall in love when it never lasts

maybe because you’re scared that you’ll never love again or maybe you’re scared that you will.

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I went out last night with a couple of friends. To party and just have fun. There was this girl that came along too and she had been flirting with me for a while and we ended up making out while dancing with eachother all night. In a perfect world this would have made me happy but.... the whole time I was wishing it was my ex. I've been single for just a month. I have no idea how to feel.

Oh darling, thats okay. We dont live in a perfect world. Your heart has not healed yet and thats totally fine. But always remind yourself, that its okay to move on x

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Time doesn't heal

But it hepls us to forget. And sometimes forgetting means healing. Stay strong x

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I'm together with this boy about 3 years now and i can't believe I'm so happy. I hope everybody can find the person they're belong to

Thank you darling. good luck with your boy x

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I'm considering about getting off Tumblr for awhile. Although this site has helped me cope and distract me, it also has its means of drawing me back to someone who I'm trying to getover. We've remained friends, and we're following each other here. I know I shouldn't visit this app anymore, but I find it so hard. Please, I need an advise :(

Its okay to unfollow them. You need to do whats best for YOU. If seeing their posts ect hurts you, unfollow them. xx

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so if you love someone but you're sure they don't love you, what do you do? you really really love them and you fall in love with them and their eyes a little more everyday but they just... don't. what do you do? do you break your own heart by keeping it inside, or do you have them break it for you if you mention it?

Sometimes we need to hear the truth. Otherwise we will always hope that theres a chance that they might love us back. Tell them, if they dont feel the same, at least you wont have to torture yourself with endless “what ifs”.

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This boy just left me again for another girl and I'm wondering if things will ever get better

oh honey, im so sorry.

I wish I could say anything that would make you feel better, but its gonna hurt no matter what I tell you.

I know what it feels like to lose someone because they found better. I sat on the bathroom floor the entire night, crying and wondering what I did wrong. Wanna know what I did wrong? NOTHING. I never hurt him or did anything to make him leave. It was his desicion and I had to respect that. (sounds like it was so easy for me, let me tell you, it was not.) I think i didnt really eat for months. And I saw his fucking face wherever i went. And i honestly thought that i would never ever be able to open up to someone again. I was so scared of getting cheated on again. It took me about 2 years to recover from that, sometimes i feel like im still not really over it. I mean im over this stupid boy but im not over the feelings he put me through. My trust is very hard to earn since then. Dont think i will ever be able to trust blindly, maybe i shouldnt.

so anyway, I know how you feel, and i can tell you that the pain will go away. It takes alot of time to understand that what happened wasnt/isnt your fault. Just Stay strong okay? xx