"When we fake fine, we fake our way out of authentic relationship with God, others, and ourselves. But lament, an honest expression of grief, is a prayer that God never silences nor wastes. It is an authentic prayer that invites God to meet us right where we are, not where we pretend to be. It is the language for the faithful, for we know the One who holds our pain. And He never silences our cries. Even more than that, He cries with us. There will be seasons for each of us when we lament alone. But isolation – for all of us, is never our destination. Real strength is not pretending we are fine and keeping God and others at a safe distance. Real strength is letting others into our brokenness. Real strength is confessing we need God’s rescue over and over and over again. For God loves us all too much to lament without rescue.