#real talks

[theblackfemininesociety]

My thoughts on the rich, famous and Hollywood.

With everything coming out from the Diddy lawsuit to the “Quiet on Set” documentary… I am convinced that money is the root to all evil. I am deeply saddened that while I grew up wishing to be in the world that was displayed to us in the media, these same people were going through terrible things behind the scenes. My heart aches for them. 💔

Any thoughts? Lets talk in the comments.

[mdrambles]

I have just begun

to understand that

"it gets better"

as our mentors meant

had nothing to do with

the state of my environment

but rather my state of mind;

if you give less of yourself to people and things that don't matter

those people and things have less of you

to hurt

to diminish

or

to destroy.

"it gets better"

simply means

"there's less of you to lose

so now you know

not to squander

what's left."

(thoughts from the front lines 2022)

[downfalldestiny]

I don't give a damn about people unless I care about them,

which happens rarely, my friend 🍁!.

[novadoesartforfun]

Friend : The way how you act, you might be a Virgo.

Me ( didn't know he was talking about Zodic ) : Of course I am a Virgin. I ain't got no biches yet.

Other Friend who was sitting with us : *wheeze*

[mydarling-suggestions]

is it normal to Not like kissing? I love cuddles+sex but kissing on the lips w/ any partner feels claustrophobic, I can't catch a breath & I wanna squirm away ASAP. That's w/ gentle pecks; don't even get me started on how nauseated making out makes me feel. But ppl think that kissing = love and if I don't wanna kiss em, it means I don't love em. I like someone now and she tells me she rly wants to kiss me. I know i should feel flattered but I just feel sad & lost cuz I know I'll disappoint her.

i know you just sent this in, but i wanna answer it because it caught my attention.

IT IS FINE TO NOT WANNA KISS

i feel like with all the first kiss stories this needed to be said. it is perfectly okay to not like certain forms of showing affection. i have friends who dont like physical touch and thats fine. while society may think so kissing DOES NOT equal love and vice versa. there are other ways to express love and theyre all equally valid.

i also wanna make a point to say that if this chick really likes you theyll understand youre uncomfy with kissing on the lips and respect that. if theyre disappointed with that then theyre not for you and you deserve better.

i hope all goes well and please know that you are normal and you are valid! 💜

[inspireddragonwriter]

One of my fears is, that I become boring or annoy people.

I'll be talking to someone or I'll be rping with someone and then ..I hear nothing...I fear that if I ask or remind them I'll be annoying. I know people are busy and have other things to do. My mind is just so dam parnoid at time, just ..rping is one of my coping tools I have to keep me happy...I just don't want to upset or annoy anyone...it's just the worst feeling in the world to me to talk or rp with someone and then I hear nothing from them...I fear I've done something...

Sorry I just needed to rant this out

[rigbeta]

Hello again.

Hey guys. I’m sorry It’s been a while. I’ve just reached this sort of deep ennui regarding my ask blog as well as my main blog so to speak. I want to update, and I want to be active in the community, but right now I just feel very underwhelmed about life. That probably sounds like laziness, which to put it plainly, it sort of is. I just have no drive to draw lately. I know I will pick myself back up and get on track but honestly it’s just getting to a point where right now, I need to just focus on my quality of life. Thank you all for just sticking with me in the meantime.