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[reeia]

2024 Word for the Year "In Love"

Setting a word for the year is like setting an intention. 2023 have been a year of healing for me, I've had ThetaHealing sessions, I've had ThetaHealing classes, I have improved myself emotionally & mentally, so I thought I am ready to be inlove with someone. I started dating quality men, really filtered and became open to dating foreigners. Chat one at a time, really choosing what attributes I like, If it's not feel good, I let go.

I've only dated 3 men last 2024, surprise! 3 men only! Before the healing, I was sort of like a serial dater, having the feeling that I need to have my one ASAP cause I'm getting old, so I was the one who initiates meet ups.  I hate to say it but there was a feeling of desparation, it keeps failing even if I was such a giver, i make desserts, gives pasalubong (when after my travels), I even draw someone. What a male energy I've got! I'm shaking my head right now!

Great that after lots of dating, I realized the pattern, that's when I sought help and decided that I want to end it.

After breaking the pattern and doing inner works, I noticed that I have really changed, I've never initiate the meetings anymore, I'm not forcing things to happen, It's easier for me to move on if there was no more 2nd date. I have attracted such amazing men last year, those who fits my standards and they respect me. Even if we were not meant to be together, it feels ok, I don't get attached anymore. They only made me ask myself what's the reason why we have to meet, what's the lesson? I know I am beautiful, I have accepted myself with natural look make ups & simple clothes. But what I learned was masculine men are attracted to feminine women.

I started to wear sexy dresses, been having mani, pedis done, I am having laser sessions for my mustache, use face gua sha, I learned how to put make up properly, shape my eyebrows, be a girly girl and deymmm I AM LOVING IT. So fun to be a Woman! Thought that I'm already attractive being very simple (bit of boyish) 😁 But now I am more.

Actually, there was this event for work in November 2024, that pushed me to be my own make up artist cause I cannot bring one in Zamboanga but my colleague did my make up there. 🥰

I also met my one last date for the year, a very nice man that showed me "hey this is what it looks like to have a boyfriend!"..  He was so perfect, he paid for all the meals we've had, dropped me off at my hotel on the first date, 2nd day went to my hotel to use the gym and waited for me to finished my work event, spent lots of time with me, 3rd day joined me and my colleagues on a beach trip, and ooohh la la, he have a washboard abs! So sexy and such a sight to my eyes! 😍 He wanted to drop me and my colleague off at our hotel after dinner, but I refused, we dropped him first. (Hah, the masculine in me still nudging). 4thday we went back to Manila & parted ways. We chatted for few more days and fades. So there, asked  myself again, what's the reason? And I immediately answered, I need to work on fitness this time, the last thing I need (or maybe it is).

That man is a gentleman, he didn't take advantage of me. Said that he don't wanna hurt someone cause he's leaving anyway (heard from my friend).

I'd still see him on IG exploring Ph beaches and with few girls. Haha. And to be honest It was hurting me a little so I decided to have IG hiatus, that's when I created new hobby. Yoga & workouts that focus on stomach (cause he have seen my side flabs 😏), butt and legs.  I FELL INLOVE WITH MYSELF MORE!!! So proud that I'm doing it consistently! 🧘‍♀️🥰

Everyday when I look at myself on the mirror, I feel so good! I'm so beautiful, with abs (when no breakfast)😆 .  On progress but I can really feel it! 😘 I love you RIA. 😘

Thanks to my failed dates, my soulmate is very LUCKY!

I've had actually forgotten that I have that word(s) of the year but as I was reflecting on my year, this is what I've found I'm IN LOVE with myself!

I wrote it, meditated on it. MANIFESTED! 💜

P.S. Along side with new habits, been doing my monthly - derma sessions, annual - dental prophylaxis, general check up,  flu vaccine & first time blood donation (will do this every 6months).

here is my before and after.

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Sooo many ups and down on my 2024, but we really need those turbulence in order to grow and also we have a choice either to dwell on them or just take the lessons, and so here it is....

It's a result of my 2023 healing journey, I decided to get back to dating. I dated 3 quality men last year, 3 because I have standards now! How awesome is that? If I agreed to meet, it means I like them already but when I didn't get a like back, it's easier for me to let go, no more chasing & no more forcing things to happen. When I see only the reason why we met, I am ok. I have stronger faith now that "the one" will be easy, no confusion & that he is the best.

I can manifest things so quick in my life. Got my 3 manifestations quickly. More almost if I was just really really focus.

I learnt the technicalities of vision board. eyyyy!

Just having faith in GOD that He always provides. I didn't have a computation of how much I have spent the whole year for my bills, dad's expenses and few of my travels. It just amazed me how I got to paid everything.

I learnt to look and assess my physical appearance & what to improve on myself such as eye brows (kilay is life now) cause heck I got called "sir" before. tsk! wearing make up and taking care of my skin more.

The nursing skills! NGT feeding, changing adult diapers and also the cleaning of course, I am now familiar with BP and glucose results. I don't want to use it in the future yet whatever reasons why I have to learn them is an upgrade.

Learnt to really do things coming from the space of love because simply I love the person. ♥

TIME is really really really PRECIOUS. Oh dad, you were giving up on August but we were not, thank you for extending 3months so we can show you love and care and each of us had time with you at the hospital.

LOVE heals. It's not that I didn't know this before but this year I have witnessed it! Every prayers and every unconditional love sent worked.

Again, I've seen the truth about death, when I saw dad walking at the hallway nearly at the hospital exit, I knew he was leaving. Death isn't suffering, it is about leaving physical pain and be finally at peace with the Creator & other departed ones. They are together at the other dimension.

More, more empathy for people who are asking for prayers, seeking money for emergency expenses, etc., I know what it feels like so I can be more helpful now. I am now a friend who will not stop you from crying, I will cry with you.

Patience and kindness for the family. No to victim mindset, I was the one whom was always there to help, so I am winning!

Grief is love unexpressed.

Learning to recognize my people, those who are align, same values, mindful, those people who makes me feel that I am seen, valued and appreciated.

Learning not to care so much, If I am not getting what I want, attention, responses, etc.. because again what's for me will find me, best projects, best contractors, my people, etc.

Seeing people taking care of themselves is sooo damn attractive, well self love is sooo magnetic, that's why I am doing it to myself.

Learning yoga and finding the kind of exercise that my body likes! Abs soon! ♥

Ah Gua Sha for face, neck and head. loveet!

Also I donated my A+ blood which lead me to discovering a natural pimple cure/ prevention for me at the same time helping three people in a natural and healthy way.

ThetaHealing with animals esp. for my baby dog.

Learnt to be a furmom just like a real mom. :D

Live more in real life less socmed so I can create new habits.

TESOL, added skill.

Learnt chatGPT.

It's been awhile, I was crying when I was writing this on my notebook. Thank you 2024. and thank you DAD!

[scoutyishere]

Reeia for worldbuilding wednesday <3

B A S I C S

full name: Reeia

gender: Female

sexuality: Bisexual

pronouns: She/Her

O T H E R S

family: Father and Brother, Deceased Mother

birthplace: Rata Sum

job: Operates her own Fashion Boutique 

phobias: None, but she is haunted by the death of her mother

guilty pleasures: Making free outfits for herself and friends/chocolate peanut butter candy

M O R A L S

morality alignment?: Neutral Good

sins - lust/greed/gluttony/sloth/pride/envy/wrath

virtues - chastity/charity/diligence/humility/kindness/patience/justice

T H I S - O R - T H A T

introvert/extrovert: Extrovert

organized/disorganized: Organized

close minded/open-minded: Open-minded

calm/anxious: Calm

disagreeable/agreeable: Agreeable

cautious/reckless: Reckless

patient/impatient: Impatient

outspoken/reserved: Outspoken

leader/follower: Either

empathetic/unemphatic: Empathetic

optimistic/pessimistic: Optimistic

traditional/modern: Traditional

hard-working/lazy: Hard-working

R E L A T I O N S H I P S

otp: Izzou, even though she knows she can’t be in a committed relationship with him

ot3: Doesn’t have an third person she cares about enough (yet)

brotp: Rizza

notp: Arrogant people, especially with a superiority complex

[scoutyishere]

"Is that my shirt?"

Reeia held the shirt in her hands, examining the stitching with a look of interest on her face. “This is really unique! I’ve never seen anything like this in all my time as a fashion designer!”

The pyromancer runs her hand along the fabric, feeling the ethereal cloth before turning her gaze to the shirtless mippt.

"I simply must know how you- oh my, I would assume you want this back?"

[eldritchseacrab]

Reeia to Saamid: So how, and for that matter why, did you get tentacles? What do you use them for?

Saamid growls as he interrupted while drinking at the bar from a curious asura. He softly sets down his mug and crosses his arms over the counter as he faces her.

"Not even an excelsior? Just going to pester me from the start with a question?" He rolls his eyes. “In that case, the tentacles from the karka hatchling integrated to my back can be used to lash at you if you decide to provoke me further, so glitch off!” He whips one of them in the air between him and her to prove his point.

OOC: Here is an old rp post to tell you more about them.

[reeia]

JENNY'S PEARL NECKLACE (an inspiring story)

The cheerful girl with bouncy golden curls was almost five. Waiting with her mother at the checkout stand, she saw them: a circle of listening white pearls in a pink foil box. "Oh, please, Mommy. Can I have them? Please, Mommy, please!" Quickly the mother checked the back of the little foil box and then looked back into the pleading blue eyes of her little girl's upturned face. "A dollar ninety-five. That's almost $2. If you really want them, I'll think of some extra chores for you and in no time you can save enough money to buy them yourself. Your birthday's only a week away and you might get another crisp dollar bill from Grandma." As soon as Jenny got home, she emptied her piggy bank and counted out 17 pennies. After dinner, she did more than her share of chores. She went to the neighbor, Mrs. McJames, and asked if she could pick dandelions for ten cents. On her birthday, Grandma did give her another new dollar bill and at last she had enough money to buy the necklace. Jenny loved her pearls. They made her feel dressed up and grown up. She wore them everywhere -- Sunday school, kindergarten, even to bed. The only time she took them off was when she went swimming or had a bubble bath. Mother had told her that if they got wet, they might turn her neck green. Jenny had a very loving Daddy and every night when she was ready for bed, he would stop whatever he was doing and come upstairs to read her a story. One night when he finished the story, he asked Jenny, "Do you love me?" "Oh yes, Daddy. You know that I love you." "Then may I have your pearls?" "Oh, Daddy, not my pearls. But you can have Princess -- the white horse from my collection. The one with the pink tail. Remember, Daddy? The one you gave me. She's my favorite." "That's okay, honey. Daddy loves you. Good night." And he brushed her cheek with a kiss. About a week later, after the story time, Jenny's Daddy asked again, "Do you love me?" "Daddy, you know I love you." "Then will you give me your pearls?" "Oh, Daddy, not my pearls. But you can have my baby doll. The brand new one I got for my birthday. She is so beautiful and you can have the yellow blanket that matches her sleeper." "That's okay, honey. Sleep well. God bless you, little one. Daddy loves you." And as always, he brushed her cheek with a gentle kiss. A few nights later when her Daddy came in, Jenny was sitting on her bed with her legs crossed Indian style. As he came close, he noticed her chin was trembling and one silent tear rolled down her cheek. "What is it, Jenny? What's the matter?" Jenny didn't say anything but lifted her hand up to her Daddy. When she opened it, there was her little pearl necklace. With a little quiver, she finally said, "Here, Daddy. It's for you." With tears gathering in his own eyes, Jenny's kind Daddy reached out with one hand to take the prized necklace. With the other hand he reached into his pocket and pulled out a blue velvet case. He handed the handsome velvet case to Jenny and told her, "Thank you for giving me your most prized possession that you saved up for all by yourself. Here, Honey I have this for you. I wanted to trade with you, but I was going to give these to you tonight either way." As Jenny opened the blue velvet box, so nice a thing itself she'd never seen before, the glistening white sheen of the Rich Genuine Pearls struck her teary eyes. God has so many great blessings waiting for us and we are holding onto the generic things and not willing to part from them. God has riches that are amazing and unreal to our natural mind. The streets in Heaven are made with pure Gold so don't think God is cheap. He has gifts that are unbelievable to us. He wants us to be blessed in all our ways so I encourage you to grab hold of the promises that God has made and do not hold onto the "fake pearls" but reach toward the "genuine pearls" that God wants us to have. Here are a few scriptures that prove God wants us prosperous in all our ways. Deuteronomy 15:6, "For the LORD your God will bless you just as He promised you; you shall lend to many nations, but you shall not borrow; you shall reign over many nations, but they shall not reign over you." Luke 6:38, "Give, and it will be given to you: good measure, pressed down, shaken together, and running over will be put into your bosom. For with the same measure that you use, it will be measured back to you." 3 John 2, "Beloved, I pray that you may prosper in all things and be in health, just as your soul

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