#relationshit goals

[thegirlwiththebloodyeyes]

You

You got me. Finally. It was the thing I most wanted in this world but never knew... You make me the happiest girl in this world. The look in your eyes when you look at mine make me forget the entire world. The feeling that I have when you hold my hand or embrace me. I feel safe from the world, safe from myself even. You embrace all of me, the good and the bad, and that’s why I like you so much... Your demons found a way to dance with mine in perfect harmony. I love the feeling of your skin, the feeling of your hand in mine, the feeling of your kisses, the feeling when I bite your lip and you moan, the small kisses when I’m about to fall asleep in your arms, knowing for sure that no matter how bad the day was I’ll always have you there waiting for me. I love the way you make me feel like the most beautiful girl in this universe. I also love the way our bodies feel like one when you enter me. The feeling of fullness that I get in my heart when I’m by your side. The feeling of fullness you give me in our bed. I want you. All of you. I want to give you all of me too. The small pieces of my heart that were broken suddently didn’t feel so broken, you embraced them knowing all of the darker story....After we lied together and I showed you all of me you hold my scars, kissed them and told me you would protect me from all of that.... In that moment a bit of my heart became permanently yours. I love the way you hold me, I love the way you are so dedicated to your dreams, love the cute messenges saying good morning, the late nights talking about everything and nothing.... And exactly the way you’re perfect to me... You’re not perfect at all, neither am I, but our differences and similar things make us perfect for one another. Just like two puzzle pieces waiting for each other. And you know that I embrace you, all of you. All the broken pieces, all the good, all the things you feel, all your dreams... My demons found their match, a challenge, a bulletproof friendship, a true love...

[rantsabuhayniqueen-blog]

Let me just say it outright – the more a couple posts online about their relationship, the higher the chance that relationship will eventually fail. While we may be tempted to make every detail of our lives up for public consumption, kids, I can not stress this enough – do not air your dirty laundry online. Yes, we see you and your beau fighting on your not-so-subtle status update. Yes, we read your conversation in the comments section of your best friends’ photo wherein your comments have nothing to do with your best friend or what they posted, and are more similar to the script of The Notebook. No, we do not need to see ten selfies of you and your partner doing some mundane thing every. other. freaking. day. And I definitely do not need to frequently see you sucking each other’s face. You might think you’re allowing the world to see how deliriously #blessed #relationshipgoals you both are, but trust me when I say you and your relationship needs to grow up. It’s cool to show-off sometimes. We all have bragging rights, especially when we’re enjoying a fantastic time with our amazing partner. But save some of those selfies and videos on your phone or laptop so you have photos of your lover no one else can see. Save some of those ’I love you’s’ to say during random, quiet moments in the day. Save the fights for a heart-to-heart conversation where you can both learn and grow from each other. Save some of those emotional, tear-jerking posts to write in a classic love letter (and if your partner DOES write you letters, you don’t always need to take a photo captioning exactly what they wrote). Would you fully appreciate reading a novel if you knew the juiciest details of the plot? The identity of the murderer? Don’t you get super pissed when someone spoils your favorite TV show? This logic also goes for couples who engage in excessive online posting, or what I’d like to call F-LSS – Facebook Love Story Syndrome. Your love story doesn’t need to be told in explicit detail, especially its negative sides, in order to be fully appreciated. Unless you’re Kardashians earning big bucks over the drama you make, it does your relationship no good for us to know whenever you’re doing bad or great, even if the great part includes a grand gesture with 50 balloons and chocolates after you’ve made-up-or-break-up for the second time this month. The over-publication of romantic affairs borders on toxic behavior. Your relationship is not a joke and it should not be a source of entertainment for the people in your Friends List, unless you let it. Learn to balance pride and privacy. Otherwise, your audience will be waiting with their bowl of popcorns ready. (c) Sade Andrea Zabala

[skawngur]