retiredtothebriars replied to your post “also i dont even know whether to identify with the term lesbian...”
that was really interesting to read - its not something ive thought about consciously before but I guess I do think about it. especially because i'm quiet/shy and indecisive i worry that ppl think im the submissive girlfriend type but thats just how i am ugh like I can do that around girls and its fine but I ask a guy to choose what to do and my brain is like hrMMmMmm
yeah when u first start to realize/acknowledge it it’s kind of a feeling that u just dont want lmao. like can i go back to being IGNORant about EVERYthing please!! but gender has made all actions feel so loaded with meaning that it’s just v overwhelming -- at least for me lol
