#riconsty: posts.

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the only thing i miss about dash rp is the camaraderie we’d used to have. and the group chats. and the new friendships. i felt like back then when you made a new friend in character, not pre-plotted, you made a new friend OOC too. 😭 the brotps was just as serious as the otps omg pls yall let’s bring #that feeling back.

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if you got a ship, connection, plot with me — familial, platonic, antagonistic, romantic, idc — don’t be afraid to send me msgs ab your muses!!!!!!!!! i love the spam, i love the pictures, i love all of it. <3

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i love talking about my characters with people that are willing to listen. 😭 especially when it comes to character parallels and the character’s history. like pls understand why they so fcked up and broken w me rq.

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using the urban rp tag to advertise your fetishization of black men is crazy.

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i know the app was shitty before but can t*mblr find a way to add ads that won’t crash the damn app every time i try to get on this bitch. or turn off my music.

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God forbid black writers make safe spaces for other black writers. I think the level of lack of self awareness from that side of the rpc is phenomenal. Y’all know good and gotdamn well y’all alienate black writers all the fucking time. Then when we make shit ourselves prioritizing our people, it’s a fucking issue. Please shut the fuck up and stop speaking on black people’s business.

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╰ ✰ 𝚆𝙴’𝚁𝙴 𝙽𝙾𝚃 𝚁𝙴𝙰𝙻𝙻𝚈 𝚂𝚃𝚁𝙰𝙽𝙶𝙴𝚁𝚂 𝙼𝙴𝙼𝙴 𝙻𝙸𝚂𝚃. ( PART ONE )

this list of questions come from the game we’re not really strangers. i do not own these questions. 

BREAKUP EDITION QUESTIONS.

what’s your exes name and one thing about them?

write a final note to your ex that they’ll never see. get it all off your chest. tear when you feel ready.

what were you over-rationalizing throughout your last relationship, if anything?

were you more attracted to their potential or who they really were? explain.

what’s the best lesson an ex has ever taught you?

what’s one thing you never said to your ex (but you wish you did)?

imagine you’re talking to your ex. finish the sentence: i’m sorry for: ____.

what parts of yourself do you need to breakup with?

what has helped you heal from a heartbreak in the past, besides time and meeting someone new?

after your most recent breakup, what song did you play on repeat?

picture you’re talking to your ex finish the sentence: you hurt me, but thank you for _____.

i knew i was over them when ____.

how did you get over your first love?

what have all your previous relationships had in common that you’d like to avoid moving forward, if anything?

how has your last relationship prepared you for your next one?

are you talking to other people currently? if so, are you seeking a real connection or needing a distraction?

do you want closure or an excuse to talk to them? explain.

what are three things you can appreciate about being single (even if it feels hard)?

did their love leave you feeling good most of the time? if not, what was the dominant feeling they left you with?

who in your life has been treating you right lately? let them know before moving on. (exes not included.)

what story about love have you been telling yourself that no longer serves you? how would you like to change that story?

what part of your last relationship worked? what part of it hurt?

what can you be doing now with all the energy you were putting into them?

do you have a limiting belief about love? where do you think it stems from? how can you challenge this belief?

did your last relationship reveal some toxic traits in your yourself that you’d like to work on? if so, what are they?

what is your heart telling you? what is your mind telling you?

what do you want to receive from a future relationship? what do you want to give? get specific.

were there any patterns in your previous relationship that you are newly aware of? if so, what were they?

significant other aside, when you visualize coming home to a life you love, what does that look like? get specific.

what was the biggest turning point in your dating life?

what validation are you seeking from a partner? how can you give it to yourself?

would you encourage your future child to be in a relationship like your last one? why or why not?

what title would you give this chapter of your healing process?

wildcard: write down three things about your last relationship that you will no longer accept moving forward. get specific.

wildcard: write down three things you love about yourself physically. permission to brag.

wildcard: write down three things you love about yourself that aren’t physical.

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╰ ✰ 𝚆𝙴’𝚁𝙴 𝙽𝙾𝚃 𝚁𝙴𝙰𝙻𝙻𝚈 𝚂𝚃𝚁𝙰𝙽𝙶𝙴𝚁𝚂 𝙼𝙴𝙼𝙴 𝙻𝙸𝚂𝚃. ( PART TWO )

i do not own these questions nor did i come up with them. these are from the card game, we’re not really strangers.

for wildcard questions, you can write out drabbles of your characters answering the prompt.

SELF REFLECTION QUESTIONS.

whose life seems most fulfilling to me? what does their life look like?

wildcard: what do i need to get off my chest? ( write it out. )

what’s an important boundary i want to set with someone in my life? why haven’t i set it already?

what am i putting off that feels important? why am i avoiding it?

what did the people who raised me teach me about love? what lessons do i want to keep? what do i want to challenge?

which one of my mistakes taught me the most this past year? what did it teach me?

are any of my insecurities hurting anyone else by accident?

what have i tolerated from people in the past that i no longer have space for?

when was the last time i truly enjoyed my own company? what was i doing?

wildcard: what is my happiness level on a scale of 1-10? ( write it down and dare it, why is it this number? what would make it 1 score higher? )

who do i feel most myself around? why?

what purchase has meant the most to me recently? what is a purchase that you could’ve done without?

what’s the best gift i can give myself in this chapter of my life?

whats my most toxic trait i can admit to? where do i think it stems from?

when do i feel the most productive? what time is it usually? am i alone or with others? ( get specific. )

what can i be kinder towards myself for today?

who intimidates me? why do they intimidate me?

what’s something mean that was said to me in my childhood that i carry to this day? what would i say to my younger self now?

wildcard: what do i need to hear most right now? ( write it out. place it somewhere you’ll see often. )

wildcard: what is one truth i’ve recently come to terms with? ( write it out. )

when have i given too much of myself in a relationship? what did that look like? what lesson did that leave me with?

i want to thank myself for _____.

wildcard: what am i doubting about myself currently? ( replace that thought with an affirmation and repeat it out loud. )

what is an unpopular opinion of mine that i hesitate to share with others?

what do i keep doing that keeps hurting? why do i keep repeating this behavior?

how would i describe my relationship with myself in one word?

when was the last time i remember being mean to someone? why did i act this way?

what’s become more important to me recently than ever before?

what’s a non-negotiable in my life?

what do i need help with currently? who can help me? how can i help myself?

what or who do i have an unhealthy relationship with?

what do i dislike that most people love? what do i love that most people dislike?

what am i wearing when i have the best time? what do i always regret wearing?

wildcard: what’s my favorite song at the moment? why do i love it so much? ( play it for yourself. )

what is the most fun i can remember having recently? what was i doing? who was i with?

what have i outgrown recently? what am i growing into?

wildcard: look in the mirror today and give yourself a genuine compliment.

who do i envy? why do i envy them?

what’s the most exciting improvement i’ve been seeing in myself lately?

what insecurity has been holding me back the most?

what have i always accepted as true that turned out to be false?

what have my past relationships taught me about myself? good and bad.

what have i been sensitive to lately?

what do i have to offer in a romantic relationship? what do i want to receive?

what have i accomplished recently that would have shocked me a year ago?

in what ways do i want to be like the people that raised me? what’s important for me to avoid repeating?

what expectation have i set on someone that has been hurting me the most?

when do i feel most helpful to others?

wildcard: what are three things that i love about myself today? ( write them out. )