not sure if this was intentional at all, but reading the mass as a child and sbk!marm and avid as its parents could potentially make todays episodes an intersting allegory for natalism and heteronormativity
first, the mass (and avid by extension) pushing so hard for assimilation could be read as society pushing the expectation that everyone should eventually have children: that parenthood is, like avid says "the happiest he's ever been," and that "everyone needs to experience it." of course, cc!avid is a parent irl and he loves his kids dearly. at the same time, he's talked on stream before about how natalism, the idea that everyone should have kids regardless of their personal goals, is harmful to both potential parents and their children, so i think a nuanced theme like this could make a lot of sense coming from him.
second, the way that sbk!marm had to take care of both the mass and avid could be read as a mother being expected to take care of both her children and her husband: that it's the job of a "wife" to, as marm does, feed and nurture the household while a "husband" leaves to pursue business ventures like entrepreneurship. i want to be clear that even through this reading, sbk!avilade is NOT unhealthy just because they are a man and a woman in a relationship (platonic or otherwise), its unhealthy because its built on misunderstandings and goals that barely align as shown by the flashbacks of their meeting from episode one that will haunt me for the rest of my days. i think that reflecting that toxicity through heteronormative imagery could, again, be very clever coming from a bi4bi couple that knows what a healthy relationship looks like, and are intentionally playing an unhealthy one to tell a compelling story.
edit: i forgot to say. the most important part of the analysis was that in the same way that it can be hard for couples to balance their relationship and parenthood, marm felt like she was losing her best friend and partner to the mass.
either way, i expect the sbk!avilade dynamic will be very different going forward because of the...developments...that occurred at the end of the episode. again, i have no way of knowing if any of this was intentional, and it probably isnt! i just wanted to share my interpretation now to compare it with how itll change in the future because the same way that creators dedicate effort to share their art with audiences, i like to dedicate effort to engage with that art even if im totally wrong, lol :b
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