#self consiousness

[nxvembre-blog]

- state of mind-

Another day has passed

And it’s all the same.

Still thinking about the past,

Knowing you’re the one to blame.

Drowning in your fears

Even though nothing matters anymore,

But in your eyes are unshed tears

And you’re curled up in a ball on the floor.

You thought it would be alright

But you know it will be worse

As you’re constantly in a fight

To find your place in the universe.

M.D

[the-affectionate-boy]

I have a question,

Please tell me if this is selfish of me?.

I feel validated when I help people, I don’t like to rock the boat for fear of a fight breaking out. I like making people smile To know I’ve done something right and that I have the opportunity to make someone elses world a brighter place if even a little. 

I don’t know my psychologist old me “I have no right to help everyone, and that my desire to feel validated by helping other is selfish. Since you have a motive and it isn’t kindness for kindness sake, but kindness for recognition. I don’t quite understand what she meant, I left nearly crying because kindness is the pillar of who I have become. I don’t know how to really process it, I second guess myself a bit so I was wondering what peoples opinions were. 

I am not the type of person that’s like “Hey I was nice to you now recognize how nice I am or boast.(I really don’t like to boast, with the one exception if I am being a playful brat. But even then I’m not really a fan of it at all.) But I just feel like I am alive, that I am slowly finding my worth in the world if that makes sense.  I really dislike being the centre of attention, I don’t really know how to take compliments. I like making people smile because it makes me feel nice. But anyway what’s everyone’s thoughts on this?.

[dateademisexualpersonwho]

Date a demisexual person who is self conscious about themself

[8d-smile]

Can I just say, being fat does not take away your right to feel self-confident. Thank you.

[themindmovement]

I’ve come to think that flourishing consists of putting yourself in situations in which you lose self-consciousness and become fused with other people, experiences, or tasks. It happens sometimes when you are lost in a hard challenge, or when an artist or a craftsman becomes one with the brush or the tool. It happens sometimes while you’re playing sports, or listening to music or lost in a story, or to some people when they feel enveloped by God’s love. And it happens most when we connect with other people. I’ve come to think that happiness isn’t really produced by conscious accomplishments. Happiness is a measure of how thickly the unconscious parts of our minds are intertwined with other people and with activities. Happiness is determined by how much information and affection flows through us covertly every day and year.

David Brooks

[onlypartialfucks]

Don't tell me I look better without my glasses because they are a part of me, and I'll feel self conscious wearing them. Don't tell me I look better with glasses because you're telling me that my natural face isn't pretty enough without something over it. Just tell me I look pretty.

[b-y-o-l-blog]

Consciousness of Self

[momofarjuna-blog]

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