When you start to heal...from yourself.
you never find out how much hurt you’ve caused until you stop causing it. Recognizing this hurt doesn’t mean you reminisce on what was good from that time, but rather, remember what you could’ve done different to make sure the hurt didn’t happen or was a lesser blow, so to speak. Though the person may never forgive you, you have to learn to forgive yourself. You cannot dwell on what is no longer in your control. You control you and you control your emotions and when you are ready. I guess I just needed to remind myself of that.

















