#selfshipstuff

[thecaptainsbear]

I hope you all have a lovely kiss day and that you receive a bunch of kisses from your f/os! 🥰💖

[canongf-archive]

you and derek are so goddamn blessed and canon omg,, dude. i love this?? although it feels weird to call him by his first name tbh BUT i f/o spence and em and i STILL almost call them by their surnames sometimes so i think perhaps its just because of the show? anyway PLEASE take good care of agent morgan aka your bf (or is he your husband?? somethin else?? PLEASE TELL--) anyway sorry for rambling but i discovered this ship two (2) seconds ago and i already love you guys together - @selfshipstuff

💗💗💗 IM!!! THIS MAKES ME SO HAPPY!!! THANK YOU FOR SUPPORTING US @selfshipstuff !!!!! 💗💗💗 

meeting other CM shippers makes me so HAPPY!!! you’re giving love to my friends!!! they’re loving a wonderful person like you!!! what more could i WANT!!! and listen... the names thing i GET it. i still don’t know which names i should refer to them as... i just switch back and forth between their first and last names CONSTANTLY they’re basically interchangeable at this point !!!

i PROMISE that i will take the BEST CARE of agent morgan (i think he’s my boyfriend??? pretty sure??? he and i probably going to have to have the “what are we” talk soon now that i think abt it) and i WHOLEHEARTEDLY believe that you’ll do the same with spencer and em!!!!! pls pls pls let’s have a group hang out soon that would be so FUN 💗

[alotta-lovin]

Uh... hey. We haven't met before, but... I'm Sebastian. Cal talks about Sunny all the time, so I figured I would drop by and say hello, fulfill my social interaction quota for the day or something. Anyway... uh, for Steve and Robin: [clears throat] personally, I like to help out where I can, and I think most people would agree, so what's your favorite thing to do for Sunny? - Sebastian (from @selfshipstuff)

👑 : “Hey-o! its nice to meet you Sebastian, Sunny talks about Cal all the time too. be sure to tell Cal I say hi if you would please.”

🍨 : “Hey, its nice to meet you, Cal seems like a rad person based on what Sunny has said, say Hi for me too if you could id greatly appreciate it!”

🍨 : “Favorite thing to do for her?… i like making her smile and laugh, like full belly laugh. she’s got this beautiful laugh that she doesn’t let enough people hear and shes SUPER funny, so to be able to make her smile and laugh when she makes others smile and laugh all the time is great.”

👑 : “God i love her laugh– But [swallows to clear throat] i like helping her out around the kitchen actually, or help when shes busy with one thing ill see if theres anything else she needs done and see if i can give a helping hand or two. she overwhelms herself and takes on too much at once and usually has a hard time asking for help but its not hard to tell when shes getting frustrated because she has too much on her plate… as she simply needs is a bit of help and shes all happy again, its cute. its the little things”

🍨 : “Yeah, What Stevie said. its the little things that seem to make her so happy, compliments to just doing something without having to be asked for her or surprising her by doing something like the dishes, folding the laundry and putting it away, just little things that make the day easier. especially when her mental health is acting out.”

👑 : “Especially this time of year, she has such a hard time and her mental health just doesnt let up very often so she really appreciates the little things that help. the hugs that happen out of nowhere when she has that clear look that she just wants to be held, or just holding her hand a little tighter, or even helping out around the house like Robin said [points his thumb to Robin] as we both said before, its the little things”

🍨 : “I hope that answers your question Sebastian! we appreciate you stopping by and asking us something! hope you and Cal have a good day!”

[ @selfshipstuff ]

[thecaptainsbear]

So it’s promo hour

Hello I’m Logan! I’m 23 and have been self-shipping for 2 years!

This is the love of my life and my only romantic f/o Hawks! I’m very uncomfortable sharing him so don’t follow if you also ship with him. You’ll be seeing him a lot if you follow me

I also have two familial f/os!

The first one is Teba from Legend of Zelda: Breath of the Wild!

The other one is Lady Dimitrescu from Resident Evil 8!

I don’t post about them much but they’ll show up once in a while!

Both my DNI/BYF is my pinned post on my blog so please look at that first before following!

[thecaptainsbear]

Heyo!! This is Cal! I wanted to thank you again for the ask and also return the favor ^^ How about 8 and 9 from the ask list? 👀 - (selfshipstuff)

8. Is there something you’re waiting to show your love? Or a secret you’re hiding from them?

The only secrets I hide from him have to do with work. I only hide them for his safety and he knows how dangerous my current mission for my job is. Other than that I have nothing to hide.

9. Are you sometimes worried you don’t deserve your love? How do you soothe that fear if so?

I always have that thought in the back of my mind. I didn’t think he would stay with me after he found out who I truly was. I’ve done things that I wasn’t proud of because of my job as a pro hero, but he was able to look past that. I just have to look over at my baby bird, see his cute happy face, and I immediately feel better. He’s everything to me and I love him.

( @selfshipstuff )

[thecaptainsbear]

🐶🎧

🐶 What is their pet name for you

Norman has a few pet names for me. He mainly uses: variants of dear (my dear, dearest), sweetheart, sweetie, and my favorite darling

🎧 What song reminds you of them

Mr Loverman by Ricky Montgomery

[silverselfshippingchaos]

2, 3, and 4 for the pre-relationship section with felix 👀 - Cal @selfshipstuff

@selfshipstuff

Hey friend! Thank you for asking!

2) What was their first impression of each other?

Ash saw Felix and sorta just melted. Oh no, a hot guy with a sword. I repeat. A hot guy with a sword.  Then they begun to speak, and Ash realized that he’s honestly a huge dick- She really likes when people can speak with her and match her energy? She’s a pretty cheery person who likes talking to people, and Felix doesn’t exactly care for socializing. 

A few conversations later, she realized that he means well, he just doesn’t know how to word things sometimes. He’s a sweetheart. 

Sometimes. 

Felix thought that Ash was a bit annoying. Just another fool to disturb his training. A really pretty idiot. He doesn’t care much for looks, or romance at all for that matter, but he couldn’t help but think that she was adorable. He quickly realized that she definitely knows when to tone things down and that she’s a really good listener. It had been a long time since he’s been able to speak to someone so easily and actually make an effort to understand what he means. 

3)  Did any of their friends or family want them to get together?

Enter my main platonic f/o, Sylvain Jose goddamn Gautier! This man is a natural flirt who specializes in matters of the heart. And he’s also Felix’s childhood friend. Knowing both Felix and Ash, he gets an amazing idea. 

He was quick to notice how much softer Mr. Grumpy Pants (Felix) gets around her, and being Ash’s best friend, he had definitely heard a fair share about how Felix is so “adorable” and “sweet”. 

He was the first person to ship them, and even went as far as to attempt to set them up. They got together without his help, but he was always their number 1 supporter! 

4)  Who felt romantic feelings first?

It was Ash. Like I said, Felix doesn’t really care for romance. In his Goddess Tower conversation, he talks about how he avoids love and romance because they’re stupid distractions. So, of course, it takes a while for him to realize that what he’s feeling is love. When he does, though, he’s already fallen so hard. It’s kind of funny, to be honest. 

Ash was very quick to realize that she felt very comfortable around Felix. He was easy to talk to, and she realized that underneath all the harsh words, he’s very caring and sweet. And he’s so strong! One of my favorite things about him is how determined he is to get stronger. He never gives up, and he’s always training, no matter the day. He’s such a hard worker omg can you hear me swooning.

She thinks that he’s the most adorable man ever. And she’s right. 

[edencantstopfallininlove]

hey, this is cal (selfshipstuff), im mulling over ur ask rn!! but i saw your vent post and i just wanted to say i know how you feel. it can be really hard to believe that our f/os would think we're valid when so many people in our world don't seem to think so. but! your f/os love you for who you are, and they know that only YOU can decide what that means for yourself. no matter what you identify as, they respect you AND your identity. being pan is super valid! ♥️💛💙 (no pink heart emojis sorry)

@selfshipstuff

CAL YOU ARE AN ANGEL thank you for your kind words! I try my best to not let all the discourse, drama and stigma affect me, but it isn’t always easy. Still, it’s good to know that there are people like you who care, and people like my F/Os who are accepting of this part of myself.

And no worries about the pink heart thing! An IRL friend of mine had the same problem when I came out to her lol