now i understand, and i would really like to help little girls i hear.
mere-exposure effect. i guess this is quite applicable to people nowadays. ah, actually i believe this "effect" really is effective! so what is mere-exposure effect all about? if you're studying psychology, you'd get this easily. but if you don't have any idea, go google it up. :)) naa. to describe it simply, it occurs when one person develops attraction to a person who's always present around him/her. mere-exposure - - the more you get exposed to an object, the more you like it or develop a liking attitude towards it.
another ideology i've come to accept..
when girls are lonely, sad, disheveled, distressed, depressed, unhappy, sorrowful, grieving, gloomy, lifeless, desperate, broken, wistful, disheartened, or in short - sad - they easily fall for the first guy who'd show them helpful attention, or assistance, or consoling. as years have come, i now really understand why this is so true.
to sum up, if you're reading this, and you're a guy - - - do not dare expose yourself to lonely girls if you do no intend to stay and be loved! ahahaha, i guess, you have to be careful around girls, especially lonely girls. don't get too much affected by their gloom that you're gonna hand over yourself AND BE ALWAYS AROUND into comforting them because they'd see different angles from that - - and soon enough you're breaking them more without intending to do so.