Taffy (24) ♥︎ American woc ♥︎ STEM triple major masochist ♥︎ gender abolitionist ♥︎ CSA/trafficking survivor and prostitution abolitionist ♥︎ detrans after 10 years/4 years on T ♥︎ kink critical ♥︎ local dive bar diva ♥︎ hilarious woman
I like having fun outside with my friends, playing pool, drinking coors, fishing, and having a smoke with my buddies. My fav things are raves, rodeos, and reading xoxo
My opinions below
♥︎ The focus of feminism is female rights, safety, and liberation. Rights to fair wage, housing, employment, voting, and bodily/reproductive autonomy. Safety from rape, femicide, trafficking, female genital mutilation, public attacks, medical misogyny, and female infanticide. Liberation from institutions of forced marriage, prostitution/sex trafficking, financial abuse/control, male encroachment on female spaces, and patriarchal brainwashing from pedophillic beauty standards, purity culture, gender roles, and religious disempowerment.
♥︎ Misandry is not real. It hurts feelings where misogyny kills. Female dignity >>>> male feelings.
♥︎ Misogyny is prevalent in all things. Especially normalized in language with the use of slurs like bitch/whore/cunt/slut/etc. We can get playful and reclaim stuff once yall stop letting moids use slurs
♥︎ Detransitioners deserve to be heard, helped, and treated as human. Performing optional medical procedures on minors is child abuse.. Let children be GNC safely.
♥︎ All financially coerced sex is rape. All surrogacy is human trafficking. Women are not commodities to be bought, even the ones who are selling themselves. You can protect and support prostitutes without raping them, all johns go to hell.
♥︎ You cannot change your sex. Names, pronouns, and physical appearance are not your sex, are all up to you, and its your right to do what you want with them. GNC people are lovely and deserve to be celebrated.
♥︎ TIMS and feminine men are not women, they deserve to be safe, free, and look how they want to look, as everybody does. However they do not experience the world as females. Gender is not a feeling, any "feelings" of gender are just the sexist stereotypes you personally align with. Male crimes do not belong in female statistics. Male bodies do not belong in female spaces. Male misogynists do not deserve to speak over women on feminism. We can tell when its a fetish.
♥︎ Misogynistic violence is heavily prevalent, normalized, and excused in LGBT/Queer spaces and it needs to be addressed. If you can say "Kill all TERFs" (aka advocate for violence, rape, and torture against women you disagree with) don't expect respect from me or any of us.
♥︎ Feminism isn't just for the females you agree with. Het partnered women, religious women, transmasc females, conservative women, pro-sw women, libfems and others who uphold the patriarchy still deserve protection from it. We don't victim blame here.
♥︎ BDSM critical/Anti "choice" feminism, because eroticizing your oppression is a grooming tool of the patriarchy and an EFFECTIVE one. You need to come to terms with the fact that not everything you do, participate in, and support as a woman is inherently feminist and that is just how the world works. Choice feminism will try to coddle you into thinking your makeup, religion, kinks etc are empowering when they are indeed patriarchal. Its a tough pill to swallow but trust I am in the same boat.
♥︎ YOU CAN BE SEX POSITIVE AND CRITICAL OF KINK/FETISHIZED ABUSE/CSA/ZOOPHILIA, AND EXPLOITATION. I support women having sex, masturbating, and feeling good I just don't support males using sex as a means to oppress women.
That being said I personally am never going to be separated from the patriarchy. I will never denounce my religion, I would rather reap the social benefits from adhering to beauty culture, I will marry a man, and years of grooming since childhood into kink/fetishes doesn't go away overnight. I support female separatism and radical feminism but I am recently peaked and will always rather choose to be honest than a hypocrite. xo