I kinda wish more allistics understood how auditory processing can be triggered not necessarily by volume but by a SPECIFIC sound. Someone in the same room can yell something loudly without bothering me. But if they whisper or murmur under their breathe?? That's SO MUCH WORSE. It's extremely uncomfortable for me and they'd think "So I'll be quieter" but that's actually even worse. Whispering/humming is definitely a Bad Sound for me
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Bad =/= Loud this is not a hard concept
Why do they have this misconception?
Surely they must understand that some sounds are bad without being loud? Their favorite example is nails on a chalkboard, that’s not a LOUD sound, it’s just bad! But also there are some other REALLY AWFUL sounds that aren’t loud at all, that I’m sure allistics would agree are awful! Like microphone feedback. Horrible sound! Even if it’s quiet, still horrible! Babies crying. Awful sound, drives everybody crazy! Doesn’t matter how “quiet” it is, still awful!
I can’t handle whispering AT ALL, any noise that sounds like a wet mouth is just NO. No chewing, no whispering, no whistling, no humming, NO MOUTH NOISES MAKE IT STOP.
Meanwhile, some REALLY LOUD sounds are beautiful. A thundering waterfall! So loud I can’t even hear you talk! (that’s probably why I love it, lol!). Crickets! Super loud, also comforting! A live orchestra! Super loud! But beautiful!
Loud sounds can be good, quiet sounds can be bad, and DEAR GOD PLEASE DON’T WHISPER!














