#spoopy talks

[silly-spookypuppy]

Well, update on my mum. We had a very in depth talk about my transition and in the end she said I'll always be a man to her 🙃

[skul-the-terf-slayer]

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[silly-spookypuppy]

since you're a switch what kind of person can flip you? or is it more of a situational switch where it depends on mood and environment?

I'm naturally submissive, so that's how I be 🥺. But if I know the person really well in person and we have a very strong connection, it might happen sometimes that I get a bit more dommy, like, service domme 😈

Buuuuut **whispering** don't tell anyone it's supposed to be a secret 👀

I'm the bottomest and subbiest of the puppies 🙂✨

[silly-spookypuppy]

Thinking of coming out to my mum next month. Cheesy maybe, but it's like a little push to make me do it

[silly-spookypuppy]

This breaks my heart... Every time I see something like this, it makes me so motivated to fight against whatever this is and be so vocal about it, it's insane

[silly-spookypuppy]

You know what? Transitioning made me respect myself so much more. Made me work on myself to be who I always was, standing up for myself on how I wanna be treated by others. Honestly, I even used to sometimes seek validation from others, like I always felt vulnerable about my self confidence, and right now it's like I gained thicker skin and just don't care anymore, I'm doing something honestly brave and amazing for myself, and I'm so looking forward for the future and how I'm gonna love being me, so who cares?

In the end, and probably I'm not saying anything new, but transitioning means a lot of self love to make you happier and care more about yourself, so please, to all the trans people on here that might need to hear this, in these darker times we're facing now, do know you're much braver than you think, you're loved and only you know how you feel. 🖤

[silly-spookypuppy]

I think it's wild when looking for clinics that provide hrt, they specifically advertise that they'll use your right pronouns and chosen name...

Like, isn't that supposed to be the norm? That's not something to brag about... What, you're gonna use the wrong pronouns and wrong name? That's just being ridiculous, that's not the norm

I understand they're saying that a trans person will be respected there, that's really nice of course, but I just find it funny, cause this is supposed to be such a simple thing, yet they feel the need to clarify they're gonna call you by your name and right pronouns xDD

[silly-spookypuppy]

I need trans frens. I feel very lonely with how I feel regarding my gender and transitioning, and sometimes would be good to talk with someone that went/is going through the same to feel reassured