🥂 morning mimosa . . . how do you celebrate your achievements together? what do you do to encourage each other to fulfill your dreams + goals: is it through words of affirmation? or perhaps having dinner ready for when you get home after a long day of work?
🍨 affogato . . . how does your s/o show love? does their love language align with one of the traditional 5 types, or is it something unique to them? do they have a special way of making you feel appreciated?
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🥂; morning mimosa . . . when not with the group, me and san often celebrate our achievements together by going to restaurants or shopping for expensive things! we’re just high schoolers so the dinner dates aren’t too formal, it’s usually at a place like olive garden or the cheesecake factory . when we go shopping, we actually don’t buy a lot! it’s fun walking around the mall with him trying on pretty clothes or buying a matching bracelet. but if it’s a big accomplishment that we worked hard for, he always buys me something that he saw me staring at. whether its as a surprise or he actually takes me to the shop, he always does! i do the same, but always as a surprise because he’s always trying to pay for me.
when we have a big test coming up, i often give him snacks and hugs throughout the day! especially if i knew he was studying a lot the night before. he does the same, with words of encouragement and hugs but he never lets go. right before the test, we both compliment each other indefinitely to build confidence since it’s often dancing or singing in front of everyone. during times of uncertainty or stress we always lay down with each other, at the beach or at home. it’s mostly comfortable silence, or soft words of affirmation.
🍨; affogato . . . san shows love in all ways. he’s a crippling romantic just like me so he does everything. it is mostly physical touch and words of affirmation. he’s always reassuring me and hyping me up, even when i don’t necessarily feel upset! he’s also always holding me in any way, whether it’s a hand, pinky, or a whole back hug. i’m shy to these types of things so he only hugs me around our friends. if he knows that i’m stressed out or work is piling up, he sometimes goes to our dance or chorus teacher and asks to be easy on me for a while. with my permission of course, he helps me out with some assignments or even finishes them for me. since everything education related is online he gets away with it! he also loves spending time with me, we often hang out at the beach or just by walking around in the morning. if he knows i’m hungry, or if i’ve been craving it he does surprise me with my favorite snacks too!
❝ THIS is the best brief description of MY OPINION on shifting and how i think it works. you don’t have to agree with what i say. this will also come with a method that i have tried and succeeded. i shifted to my k-idol school using it.
obviously this is coming from how i see it, so im not sure if ill type it well in a way for everyone to understand. but i just really wanted to share this. even if you disagree or try to change my mind this is what ill always think. remember, there is no right or wrong answer for what you think shifting is.
i personally believe that shifting is something similar to the case of miles morales in the movie spider-man : across the spider-verse. (spoilers if u haven’t watched it yet.) ❞
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❝ ANYWAYS, you know how there are two miles morales, both the same but different in their own ways? that’s how i think shifting is, except you get to pick who your twin is. also, instead of going into the portal to visit your twin, you become them. that twin is you. instead of being your twin, that is you in another dimension. it’s like how there are tons of spider-mans, who all have their own similarities and belong to their own earth. those are all of your drs, where each spider-man is each of your identities for each reality you want to shift to.
the moment that you think up your persona for whatever realm you are switching in, they come into existence whether or not you want to shift into them or not. i believe that once you create your script, whether its digital, physical, or stored in your mind, it creates that other miles but in another dimension. it’s like you are the spot (from the movie) , you have multiple paths in your mind that can send you to your desired reality. ❞
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❝ FOR the method, it is very simple. it’s just remaking the gif i added at the top of this blog. you can do it anywhere, standing, sitting, swimming, but preferably still. i’d also suggest affirming yourself that you’re already there throughout the day.
get your headphones, or play an audio with your phone or any other device, and lay down.
you don’t have to be on your back or anything specific, just be comfortable.
whether it’s subliminals, guided meditation, music that reminds you of your dr, or voices of people in your dr, literally anything. sit still and play it.
listen to it, while repeating affirmations in your head. you don’t have to do it constantly, just make sure that you know you have shifted.
when you really feel it, or you feel ready, open your eyes. if you fall asleep, it’s fine. you’ll be there when you wake up.
when you open your eyes, you should see a portal similar to the one in the gif, or you can script/visualize it looking according to your tastes. your s/o, best friend, enemy, hell even your dr self should be standing there, just like gwen, either holding our their hand for you, or taking yours. you can script that they say something, like asking if you’re ready, or if they just drag you up there.
they will lift you as if you are as light as a feather, and take you to travel through that portal until you reach your desired reality.
this worked for me!! i made it pretty easily, after just a few minutes of affirming. i usually fall asleep, but it worked this time. and i scripted that the person who gets me, which happened to be seonghwa, gives me a hug when i arrive because of how proud he is. he’s so sweet!! ❞
