well then i’m looking forward to what ur writing 😇😇😇😇😇😇 and no i haven’t heard of stardust!! ill try to check it out sometime promise
u pinching a three year old is frying me DSJJSDJDJF yeah parents need to practice disciplining their child properly. i definitely don’t believe in physical discipline but gentle parenting has to start when their brains r like sponges and they pick up everything
and journaling is my favorite thing ever!!! i personally write on paper with a pen/pencil (obvs help). i’ve had ppl tell me before that their hand can’t go as fast as their brain but i’m not sure that that’s the point. not that i think ur thoughts should be calculated and well put together in an entry, it’s meant to be messy, but i think giving urself time and grace when intending to wind down and just get out what ur able to and what needs to come out. idk just an opinion of mine i hope it helps in any way <3 🐰
crash out over, i listened to yuta's album (GO STREAM PERSONA) and i felt seen and i did like three pages of colouring. still no remorse for pinching him, he was also ok like five minutes later the dramatic fuck but idk
another point for why i shouldn't be a parent bcs i just be hurting these kids back without giving a fuck, i'd probs be reported to cps
as much as i agree with gentle parenting, i believe there needs to be a line where you're firm with them so they actually understand boundaries and consequences, or else they'll think bad behaviour isn't exactly punished so they can just keep doing it (if that makes sense)
hmmm you're kinda right with the journaling thing i fear, i must be less perfectionist with that sort of thing and just express what i feel in the moment idk. i think the last time i did that i went on a three page rant about gender roles and expectations (i had a fight with my transphobic parents LOL) and that was pretty much brain rot
i suppose i can't have too much pressure on myself in the moment to write, like i think i overthink HOW i write it and stress about covering everything on my mind rather than just letting myself at the page yk?
